How would you react if a guy asked for your number?

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DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

For example, if i met him online, he shouldn't even ask for my number within the first week or two. If i met him in person at work or back when i was in school, he still shouldn't ask for my number within the first week or two because i hardly know him. If the guy was someone i saw around town and we feared losing touch, then i’d consider giving my number if asked because the only other way we’d see eachother again is if we crossed paths or if i gave my discord instead. I dont have other forms of social media and have no intentions of getting any to keep temporary contact with someone

Cherry234 · Accepted Answer

Depends on who it is. There was one guy who asked me for my number during my freshman year of college. I didn't really know him so I thought it was odd that he just asked me for my number but I gave it to him anyway. I should not have done that.

I eventually stopped talking to him and ghosted him because he kept asking me to hang out with him and I also wasn't interested in conversing with him. Yeah, I feel bad about it but I just really didn't want to talk to him. I've been ghosted by other people too so I don't really let it bother me so much.

Moose304 · Accepted Answer

You do realize this question as asked is impossible to answer, right? Was this a first date? 2nd? 5th? For me, I DO NOT USE dating sites. So if someone has set me up I already have her phone number to start with. I have had some hookups with women I have met and got to know over time. As a general rule, I don't ask for their number. There are so many ladies being stalked by pervs and ex-husbands and BFs most are very hesitant to give their number anyway. When she is comfortable giving it to me she will do so and if she doesn't? Well, it's no skin off my nose I will just move on.

andreasderjuengere · Accepted Answer

It's quite common that my customers and certain acquaintances have my contact information.

It really amuses me to see how 'getting a number' has become part of the mating rituals in some part (s?) of the world.
Personally, I prefer creativity and imagination to get in touch with someone I like.
(Where: 'like' is meant in a traditional way - not as an electronic response :D )

Sarahdelacruz · Answer

I don’t care when guys ask for my number even if I’m not interested. Simply because responding to a text is a choice. So I never mind giving away my number because I know eventually they’ll stop texting when I make it obvious I’m not interested. Giving out my number isn’t something personal for me because there’s really nothing you can know about me by just having my number. I feel it’s easier to stalk someone via social media vs having their number. Sometimes you even forget what a person looks like if all you have is their number. You can also wonder what they’re doing etc. but with social media you can stalk them and always look at their photos. I would always prefer to give my number vs my social media.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

I'd think he was playing a prank on me or someone put him up to it-

No, I'm not being cynic, just based on past experience, or lack of. I can't even recall the last time a guy asked for my number, outside of coworkers that needed it due to work.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on who… If I’m interested in this person and we have talked in person/social media, I’ll give him my number.
If im not interested and we talked in person/social media, I won’t give him my number and tell him to keep the convos in person or over social media.

If it’s just a stranger and I’m not interested, I will politely tell him that I don’t feel comfortable giving him my number.
If it’s a stranger and I am interested, I will give him my number.

shorty_samy · Answer

Depends tbh. I have a boyfriend, so obviously I'd say "I have a boyfriend, but if you want to be friends that's fine!" but if they want my number to like, set up a date I'd tell them I have a boyfriend and walk away.

melanieeeB · Answer

Depending on the situation.
Mostly I reject it, cause I don't like giving out my number.
But if I already knew him a little and was interested in staying in regular contact with him, I would give it to him

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would give it if it was obligatory or he seemed trustworthy - Like if we are at church I can’t refuse to give my number to somebody who is supposed to give me a ride to bible study if I give it to others

ZS007 · Answer

It happened to me after I told him we should practice dance outside class sometime. But I already had his insta so that makes me curious... I was over the moon. Yeah he is my crush.

SweetDumplings · Answer

If I like him then I will blush and give it to him nervously, if I don't like him then I would softly decline

VikingWarLord · Answer

Just get your MONEY UP and you'll have Heauxs banging down your door.

Talking from experience. If these b! tches ain't chasin' YOU, it's not gonna work any dammn way. Get the money and the Heauxs will come

FreyaRed · Answer

Depends. If some random guy asks for my number he gets a fu... off reply. If we talked few times and there was chemistry he will get it.

The_Maphio · Answer

I'm hoping that that came after we discussed our interests, because I'd also be rather quick in telling them that I definitely DO NOT, swing that way.

VK1997 · Answer

If it was someone I had seen around for a while or thought was attractive in some manner, I wouldn't mind. If it was someone I felt uncomfortable near or wasn't interested in I'd politely decline

RedStiletto88 · Answer

If it’s someone I don’t know I just tell him the truth , that I’m taken and show him my ring. That usually works most times.

slatyb · Answer

Depends on why he wanted it. If he was seeking a sexual relationship I would just say sorry, I'm not attracted to men.

laura123iu · Answer

i would be flattered, but worried if I wasn't interested.

dustybiker · Answer

Nobody has ever asked for my number. They have all asked to give me theirs.

Molly_16 · Answer

Don’t care just give him, I mean see where it goes honestly. Ntn bad will happen.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I would tell him to go fuck himself because I am not a homosexual.

BloJo · Answer

I would be curious why a guy wants my number. That being said, many of my coworkers (half are guys) and all of my bosses (two of three are guys) have my number.

jshm2 · Answer

As a client manager for an IT firm, it's what guys would normally do.

Agape93 · Answer

Wouldn't bother me, but remind him that it's not his business.

misunderstoodhoe · Answer

if im interested or want to get to know him better give it to him if not tell him i dont have a number

Lola154 · Answer

depends on my actually love life, if feels okay with it to talk to someone new give him my number. I don't see something wrong with it

Anonymous · Answer

I say it's a new phone and I don't know the number by heart. Give me yours

Subarugirl · Answer

What numbers? Lol there are lots of different ones?

jasco · Answer

If a girl ask for my number I be surprise and if a guy did than i maybe say sure

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on our current relationship status; coworker, sisters friends, brothers friends, etc

Anonymous · Answer

I've been fantasizing about that happening for a long time and it never happens and yeah I would that's all I'm going to say

Twalli · Answer

Probably give it to him, I don't talk often so it wouldn't amount to much

Jerre · Answer

I would tell him I am 100+% straight, ask why he needs my number.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

If I have a reason to give it to him, I wouldn’t think anything of it. If he’s trying to hit on me, I’d tell him to fuck off.

bigbluey · Answer

I’d be like sure take it

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I reply, how about you give me yours instead.

Somegirl678 · Answer

if i like him id be really flattered and happy

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

Not going to happen, if it was random.

CandaceSims201 · Answer

it deponds on what is.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I'd say "7" and then walk away.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Depends on the reason.

douride2 · Answer

Depends on the guy & the situation.

MrJMM · Answer

Yeah, I would need more context.

Slim57 · Answer

I'd tell him im only into women

billluc69 · Answer

interesting, but it has happened

rocksongwriter · Answer

It'd be awkward.

JosyJosy · Answer

Reject.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

With a bug fat no

siseñor · Answer

it really depends

humanearth · Answer

Laugh at his ass

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I only use discord.

Fuentes · Answer

SuS !!!

SmilesAintAgirl14 · Answer

depends on the guy.

Anonymous · Answer

Give a fake one

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