Are we who we are or how we act?

[Anonymous]

What I mean is, I'm a very awkward and underconfident son of a bitch,
I've tried meeting some of my internet friends in real life a few times and it did not go well at all... I kept my self so in my own bubble that I did not say anything much AT ALL.. or act at all... To protect myself from possible rejection, I was sort of like a statue almost. Awkward asf.

There was things I wanted to do and say but didn't, so I came across as boring as fuck... Is that who I am? Jus an awkward boring weirdo?
Or am I the person in my head that would do that stuff but didn't? U know. The stuff I would do if I wasn't a fkn wimp... Is that me in my head. Or jus the actions you shoe on the outside is who you are?

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[Citizenkirk]

We are what we do and we are presently in a transition from who we were to who we will become

[Asker]

I think your right

[Asker]

Damn I need to be more brave

[Citizenkirk]

You'll do fine 🤗🤗

[Citizenkirk]

Thanks for MHG

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm the same on and off of here because I only know how to be me.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't know whether this might help you or not, but I really don't care about making a fool of myself. The way i see it.. So what if I get rejected? It's how you handle rejection which can make or break you. Not the rejection itself.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

how u act is all da rest of the world can go by

[In_Trance]

both