How to show the guy you're not easy to get?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy have been dating for a month and we had sex on the fifth date. and almost every time after that we have had sex too on other dates. Now I notice he just kinda expects it and I want to come across as not easily to get. I love sex of course but I just don't wanna come across as that girl that's not special that he has to not work for. So what can I do to turn the tables around to show him that I'm not that easy and he has to work harder for me? Because I heard guys appreciate girls more the harder they have to work at it to be or get with the girl. So what can I do?

[misterbill71]

its too late to make him work for it... you already gave it up. if you withhold it now, he's going to think you are losing interest and its going to cause problems. I suggest you tell him that as much as you enjoy being with him, occasionally you'd like to do other things when you get together to make it more "special" when you do have sex. That sounds like a typically female thing to say and most guys will buy it. good luck.

[cristinaboss]

Well then you shouldn't of have had sex with him that soon if you want him to work harder for it. Since you've already had sex with him, what do you expect him to do? I don't blame him for expecting it every time. If you want him to work harder for you, just don't have sex.

[Anonymous]

don't have sex with him so easily.