Girls for top high value guys, there are few of them, so if they somehow catch them they need to fight for them and keep them. It takes time. You would do the same thing if you were in the same situation
Because maybe they didn't really consider you a person they really liked.. by the way she doesn't really ditch her friend no? (She just sort of feels guilty and tries to be distant)
Similar thing happen but is did find hard to find true female friend instead I got some fake female friends that only gain my trust to temp to ex boyfriend that did cheated.
@ManOnFire With some things I am a pretty forgiving person and I know how emotions can get weird when a person guy or girl gets totally infatuated with a new lover, and you just have to hope they come back to normal soon.
In my case, I didn't really ditch my friends. My ex boyfriend kept me away from them all the time because he was always manipulative and abusive. Under normal circumstances, I wouldn't willingly leave my friends to go play footsies.
It's a problem for us guys too sometimes. When a friend gets a girlfriend, suddenly he is always too busy to do anything. Rarely has time to do stuff with his friends anymore.
that my female friends ditched me when they met my ex and one of them even started hanging out and dating him. It‘s happening again, I have this female friend who ignores me when guys are talking to us.
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Girls for top high value guys, there are few of them, so if they somehow catch them they need to fight for them and keep them. It takes time. You would do the same thing if you were in the same situation
Depending on the reason you're ditching your friends for your guy you're not living the right life.
If you actually have friends who are actually friends and you decide to ditch them for somebody else then were they really friends to begin with?
If these friends were toxic enough that they would affect your relationship then why are you calling them friends?
And if the relationship requires you to ditch people in order to be in it how good of a relationship is it?
I used to do this because I didn’t value the friendship, but I quickly realized, friends are loyal men aren’t. Lol
Because maybe they didn't really consider you a person they really liked.. by the way she doesn't really ditch her friend no? (She just sort of feels guilty and tries to be distant)
Because they’re not good friends. I stay away from people like this
Similar thing happen but is did find hard to find true female friend instead I got some fake female friends that only gain my trust to temp to ex boyfriend that did cheated.
Partners always has higher priority than friends. That said you shouldn't be so busy with a partner that you completely lose contact with friends.
It's happened to me as well! All you can do is wait for it to end and be kind to them when they return back to the friends they so quickly dumped.
Would you really accept them back after they did that to you though?
@ManOnFire With some things I am a pretty forgiving person and I know how emotions can get weird when a person guy or girl gets totally infatuated with a new lover, and you just have to hope they come back to normal soon.
I might agree with that, yeah.
In my case, I didn't really ditch my friends. My ex boyfriend kept me away from them all the time because he was always manipulative and abusive. Under normal circumstances, I wouldn't willingly leave my friends to go play footsies.
A relationships far more important then a friendship sorry.
Seems more like you are a boring git. Also, people find what you hate, to be interesting instead.
everyone does that. not just women. they do that, cause their partner is the new and exciting thing in their life. it's normal.
It's a problem for us guys too sometimes. When a friend gets a girlfriend, suddenly he is always too busy to do anything. Rarely has time to do stuff with his friends anymore.
that my female friends ditched me when they met my ex and one of them even started hanging out and dating him. It‘s happening again, I have this female friend who ignores me when guys are talking to us.
Because they’re pick me girls and I cannot stand those types of people.
I don't know but I do know that guys do it a lot as well. 2 of my friends got girlfriend's and basically disappeared off the face of the Earth.
Because they usually hate their friends and plan on ditching most of them after they get married anyway?
because finding a partner is literally the goal of life? you are going to lose all your friends as you age anyways
Life. It's the flow of life. You grow up and family becomes more important
You're young and guys are exciting to y'all. Girls dont ditch their friends for me.