What are the signs that she’s using you just for attention?

[MuizC]

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

She doesn’t care about you, your interests, your feelings… For example; Doesn’t ask about your day, how you are, or what you’re doing, etc.


She doesn’t really want anything to do with you unless it benefits her. For example; Only wants to talk or hang out if she’s feeling bored, lonely, or needs confidence boost. Or when she wants something.


You start to feel tired and exhausted after being around her or talking to her. You feel drained and empty because you put all your efforts in just for it to be unreciprocated.


Will get mad when you are busy or don’t have the time. She will think of you as useless and a waste of time if you can’t give her the attention she wants.


She’s very negative or complains to you, could be about herself, her life, other people, etc. She wants validation and you to pay attention and give positive feedback to her.


She isn’t there when you need her or need someone to talk to. She all of a sudden becomes busy. She’s being selfish, she takes what she needs and wants, but won’t do the same for you.

[LeaveMeSortaAlone]

If you get left of read a lot in my opinion. First big flag

[Mantinziza]

there's a few examples but some of the best ones I can think of, are when she's starts talking for minutes on end about "how ur milk from breakfest last week tasted funny", or "what do you think my friend ment when she said "purple is so 2002"".

Or any question that you can't answer with out an "I dont know response", and it doesn;t end at that point.

Pretty much when a conversation goes on so long about pointless crap that will never have an impact on anything thats gonna happen at any point in the future.

Small talk kinda fits in that category, but even small talk (sometimes) has a point behind it.

so basically in my experience answer to your questions, when the talking doesn't end for over 5 + minutes about nothing that's ever, gonna matter ever.

[Anonymous]

All women "use" men for attention, just like men "use" women for sex.

The term "use" is overused (forgive the pun).