What drives women away?

[scott04sa22]

[DaySpring]

Lack of Communication is the #1 factor that hinders relationships.

- It forces both parties to come up with conclusions for the party which many of times are inaccurate.
- It makes enemies out of lovers
- It creates false realities in the minds of both parties.
- It curtails bonds
- It curtails trust
- It gives power to problems, no matter how small
- It makes both parties feel distant
- It forces both parties to play games
- It Leads to a lack of growth

Many other commenters are listing things that drive a women away before the committed relationship stage.

[Guy13]

I don’t care what they say about the emotional and communication 💩. If they don’t:
-find you reasonably attractive then Done.
-if attractive and can’t see you taking financial care of them then Done.
If comfortable with those two items THEN they will find something else they don’t like and have to fix/change.

It is what it is.

[Andro36]

Mean guys, arrogance, lazyness, sex addiction, narcissism, immaturity, being too jelaous, lack. of ambition, among others

[scott04sa22]

And poor finance investments

[CubsterShura]

If he seems to be imnature or unhinged in some way I run now. I fully fully trust my guts when it comes to men.

[XhmadRooz]

Personal Experience: I decided to date my Porto Rican coworker. 1st she was OK when we started texting but after 2 weeks, she said I am not professional once I asked her for eat food in restaurant. I don't know what part was unprofessional texting or invite for food.

[honeynut-scenarios]

Actions speak louder than words. If you’re unhappy in your relationship, talk to him/ her. I know it’s time to walk away, when nothing is being changed.

[Daniela1982]

A limo or a taxi, but you can't discount Uber or Lyft.

[artstatues]

Preoccupation with sex, being objectified and treated like sex objects, lying) that's something in common for both genders, ogling other women and being overly flirtatious with them

[SweedyPie]

For me it's
Narcissistic behaviour, immaturity, insecurity, lack of ambition, no sense of humor, lack of consciousness, lack of self love and lack of understanding oneself.

[Corina_J]

INCONSISTENCY is a biggie for me. I could give a shytload of examples, but I think y'all catch the jist.

[dustybiker]

Same things as men, I assume. Anything that causes unnecessary effort or strain.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

So deep 👏👏👏👏

[dustybiker]

@Aakash_Hangargi Thank you. 😎

[Anonymous]

Usually their misconceptions. They generally don't communicate when something upsets them. It festers in their brain. And when enough of it builds up they decide it's too much he doesn't love her and then she moves on to another guy. Problem is she doesn't realize this will continue until she realizes what she's doing. This is why a lot of women follow the same patterns of behaviour.

[JosyJosy]

Bad hygiene, insecurity, controlling, manipulation, abuse, bad temper, no communication, ...

[Iron_Man]

Probably if they’re not getting enough attention or if the husband or boyfriend is Struggling financially

[dragoblack]

From watching the world around me... projected insecurities, toxic behavior, unfaithfulness, lack of confidence, and belittling/degration them.

[Chill_Meta]

Depends on the woman, it can be damn near anything, given infinite number of variables

[Mochaswithlattes]

A car will drive her away

[dorksided1]

For me, being ignored, games, no communication

[DaySpring]

I would say lack of communication kills most relationships. Because if you cannot communicate you cannot resolve problems. 1 problem is all it takes to ruin those types of relationships. If you have problems but can resolve them peacefully and truly resolve them then the relationship can last much longer.

[dorksided1]

@DaySpring
You can pick that up early when dating someone, especially these days. Seems like no one wants to talk about issues, I mean thats part of being an adult. The whole push and pull of games also a huge one

[rocksongwriter]

Uber and Lyft.

Ba-dum-tsss.

[Anonymous]

The sight of shiny trinkets.

[rocksongwriter]

I misread that as "the sight of tiny shrinkets".

[Opinion Owner]

@rocksongwriter lols

[Wise4myage]

Desperation and bad hygiene.

[Mediterraneansoul]

There desire for other men's attention

[fonduegirl]

Maladaptive behavior

[RandomGuy1030]

Like being gay or what is maladaptive

[fonduegirl]

Why would being gay be maladaptive? I'm sorry honey, are you brain dead?

[RandomGuy1030]

What is maladaptive then

[fonduegirl]

@RandomGuy1030 you didn't answer me

[RandomGuy1030]

Kissing men isn't maladaptive? Is it adaptive?

[fonduegirl]

@RandomGuy1030 if it's maladaptive, how come women do it? Women are maladaptive? You friggin homophobe!

[RandomGuy1030]

Is homophobia maladaptive?

[fonduegirl]

@RandomGuy1030 isn't it?

[Kaneki05]

The guy is trying to argue that Maladaptive applies to been gay because it's against evolution since as we know it humans need to reproduce with women to carry on humans.
However one forgets that there is too many people anyway, then along with the fact other creatures have been know to adapt that way for certain reasons. Along with the factor that becoming gay could be a sign of different evolution we just simply don't understand yet.
There is also a possibility that everyone may adapt to be frogs in the future if we live that long, and are social understanding of trans keeps going.

But anyway, obviously this opinion wasn't saying maladaptive in the science evolution way. And meant it more in the way a guy acts towards her, which wouldn't even include a gay guy because a woman wouldn't be able to get with him so moot point.

[fonduegirl]

@Kaneki05 as an lgbt feminist, I might have taken it the wrong way. Sorry. No hard feelings? @randomguy1030

[Drumlin2001]

Uber?

[Xtendable]

Cars, buses, Ubers

[TommyMountainFigure]

Damn, you beat me to it!

[Xtendable]

@TommyMountainFigure it was lined up for it 😂

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Xtendable Indeed it was. :))

[Jltakk]

Me asking them anything at all.

[michael1469]

Usually a SBD fart...

[Shamalien]

Indecision