she's always been extremely nice to me, receptive to compliments and mild flirting, and i always got the vibe that she was at least somewhat interested. the effort to keep conversation going never felt one-sided and she always seemed genuinely interested in what we were talking about or what i had going on / and genuinely flattered when I'd compliment her. she's also complimented me numerous times and is always apologizing when i feel she doesn't have to. she's so sweet π
well anyways, things had gone on so nicely for so many weeks that i obviously started falling for her. she is so charming and beautiful i really don't see how i couldn't have. over the past few days i came to the realization that i had to tell her how i felt, no matter how nervous i was, or i would explode. so i made up my mind to confess my feelings. i recorded a voice message telling her everything. you can hear how nervous i am in the message but i owned it and pushed through. i've always heard women find men being nervous unattractive but what am i supposed to do lol i think if anything it's maybe more attractive that i still did that despite trembling in fear lmao
so. now comes the issue. she listened to this message last night, started typing... and then nothing. I don't know if she fell asleep, or didn't know what to say, or what. and I don't think it would be cool of me to bother her today unless she reaches out first. i should give her time. meanwhile, im curious what other girls think! how would you react in this situation?