Did This Woman Take It Too Far?

Question

so as you can see here, some crazy bitch ruined her man’s 100k plus car. Why would you do that? You can’t go ruining people’s property cause they found a new chick. Do you think she took it too far? Cause I would sue the hell out of this female. 
 
 Any guy who drives a car like that cheats. She knew it was going to happen. So really it’s her fault for her choice in men

SaartjieJane · Accepted Answer

Eh… I get that it’s done in anger. Doing that to a car is taking it a bit far since that’s vandalism. Do something they can’t prove you did… like burn all his clothes in the fireplace.
A friend of mine got cheated on. After telling her girl friends about how her boyfriend was being distant, her friends found out he’d been going out to clubs with this girl and was sleeping with her, acting like a couple. My friend reached out to the girl he was with and she confirmed that they were sleeping together and been going out, etc but didn’t know he was dating. My friend went to Facebook and wrote about how long they’d been together, how she’s always been there for him and then about how he cheated and writer in detail about what he did. She added photos of him and that girl together and screenshots of that girl saying they had been sleeping with each other and going out like as a couple, etc. She also tagged her boyfriend, his parents and his sister on the post so they obviously would’ve seen everything their son and brother had done.
And tbh I’d do that if I get cheated on. Call him out for being an disgusting excuse of a human. Let his family and friends all see

Spotifyplaylist · Accepted Answer

If I was the guy I would sue her and if that don't work im beating. her. ASS. or she better get my car cleaned and I don't mean the nearest neighborhood car wash. It's horrible to cheat on people, but you fuck up my car your subscription to life will be cancelled with no refund.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

All I can say as a victim of marriage and divorce, is that vindictive, hateful, vile, and evil people make it impossible to love them, or stay in love with them. But once they get their hooks into you, they don't let go easy. Through out the process from lawaryers to police offericers responding to her criminal activity... constantly had to remind me that its not against the law to be a vile, evil, hateful, vindictive and morally compromised person... so basically its legal to torment a person.

But this women actually crossed the line, because vandalism is illegal. But let me tell you this... if her names on the title of the car the police will say she can paint her property anyway she wants. So since it's equally her property, this guys probably screwed.

So I am telling you, sometimes in marriage it takes years for someone's true colors to show. So be so very careful about getting married.

dolemite89 · Accepted Answer

if a guy did that to a cheating woman’s car he’d be arrested but yet all the girls in the comment section here support women’s right to commit acts of vandalism and destruction of property with no repercussions for some reason 🤣

erandal · Answer

Yes he definitely deserved it. Good luck to him trying to sue her though. That's a UK registered car and we don't have a culture here of suing everybody who lets their dog poop on our lawn. At most he could do her for is criminal damage but she could almost certainly recoup the cost through the courts when she divorces him because he was the one who cheated.

Also that is a Revere special edition (a good £30k on top of base price) and he most certainly got the paint protection film on it so it will only take a couple of hours to get sorted anyway.

DizzyDesii · Answer

My mom keyed tf out of my dad’s car and seats only to find out a year later that my grandma lied about him cheating to break them up 💀😂 I’d honestly want to slap tf out of the guy rather than breaking his property. Bt the good ole sledgehammer to the game console isn't a bad idea

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I mean, that's not a 100K car, paint can be removed by a good shop (or just get a different paint job, basic white? C'mon, do better), and if he was gonna cheat because he bought the car HE shouldn't be surprised he got it tagged.

If you cheat, you get the consequences.

Is this a little far? Maybe. But cheating is worse. You can paint over spraypaint or just remove it, but possibly giving your ex an STD because you couldn't keep it in your pants? Worse.

Also, it's so weird you think cars determine a man's capacity to cheat. But still, if he buys a cheater car, he better be prepared to get the cheater graffiti.

He did buy the car, afterall.

shaysh87 · Answer

If my boyfriend cheated on me, I would've wanted to do the same thing. I don't blame her. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings you can ever have. You dont screw someone over then complain when they try to screw you over.

I knew of a college girl who got revenge on her cheating boyfriend by logging into his student account and dropping all the classes that he worked so hard to get a seat in. So he had to wait another 9 months to start school again. Those classes are very hard to get by the way.

ZackBan · Answer

Not her fault.
The legal system should slap her a vandalism charge and have her pay for damages as well as serve time. That is the only way this form of entitlement ends.

As long as a woman can vandalize a 100K vehicle and get away with it because "he cheated" they will keep doing it and it will keep being wrong.

He cheated? Leave. Cheat back. Bang his best friend and send him a video. Tell the other girl. Tell his mother if you know her. So many things can be appropriate responses but going after property is a step too far no matter the incentive

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

That’s inappropriate behavior, even criminal but we all know we don’t hold women to the same standards as men under the law. Ain’t shit he can do about it. Cops will laugh him straight outta the station if he even tries to press charges. This WOULD be a story if a dude did the same thing though. He’d be locked up before he was done laughing and they’d throw away the key.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

"Any guy who drives a car like that cheats. She knew it was going to happen. So really it’s her fault for her choice in men".. 
 
   
   why is that never said to men when  they  get cheated on?  No if a woman cheats on the man, it's because all women are evil and manipulative 🙄🙄 When cheating happens it's  ALWAYS  the fault  only  of the lying  POS CHEATER, whether they male or female...

Pinay_ako · Answer

🤣 so all luxury SUV owners are cheaters? 🤣 nah nah. I got cheated on before and I will not even waste my breath and just walk away because it’s not worth it. You should thank the person who cheated on you and the side chick they cheated with. They just showed you their true colors and saved you a future that’s not meant to be. Move along, sis! I won’t wanna go to jail or have their blood on my hands coz they wanted to dip their dick in someone else’s cooch. 😂 bye ✌️

Sonorous · Answer

Yes. Cheating is wrong, but that's a criminal offense so judges will take it more seriously.

Plus, imagine if he didn't actually cheat & she was simply overreacting? That reaction would be unnecessary & undeserving.

I think the best way of handling these situations is to remove your connection with the person & warn others about them.

Anonymous · Answer

i like how other "crazy" women think this crime is justified. It is a CRIME and women need to be bitch slapped by more judges for doing this shit, rather than getting community service for "temporary insanity" pleas. More guys should sue in civil claims court when crazy bitches do this crap.

Jaguarsxr051 · Answer

Modern Woman likes cheaters you will be amazed how many woman wants be with you if you're 6feet plus they don't mind if you're married actually it makes you more attractive to them because they like the game and drama that's what happened to modern woman

IceCreamSandwich · Answer

Break ups can make people do crazy things...

He probably knew she would vandalize something when she caught him cheating, too. Doesn't mean it was right. He can sue if he wants, if they're married she can also sue. People are crazy. They're both reckless and stupid.

Levin · Answer

The car gives douchebag vibes.

The guy was probably a douchebag but she ignored the signs because he's rich or has a good job or whatever.

If a relationship has ended for whatever reason most people just accept it and move on, without acting like a puerile fruitloop whose ego has been hurt.

If you can afford a car like that I'm sure it's not a huge stretch in any case to put it right.

Spoilt drama queen brats who make their own bed, all around.

VanillaSalt · Answer

She took it too far he was a dick and cheated… it’s not right but I’ll tell you she’d be a bloody mess if she did that to my car… arguably she’d deserve it. The same as I deserved it for cheating… we’ll make a full circle of prison time and see how it works out…

I don’t see what’s so hard to understand… fucking handle yourself with some god damn dignity and you’ll get respect. Act like a cunt and be treated like a cunt. Both for the cheater and the bitch.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Considering the other stuff women have no problems doing (the lack of self control is breath taking), I would say that guy probably got off easy. That lady's got a temper. Now, it is possible that she hit the wrong car, and that would suck; but that guy got off easy if she got it right.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I understand why she might be butt hurt, but I'd say it's too far. Now she's gone and done something that can legally put herself in the meat grinder. When otherwise she probably could've just screwed him for money like most women do.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Hell yeah she did take a little too far. But it's not like the time that there was a concrete truck driver knew that his wife was having an affair with somebody. He got even by dumping several yards of concrete in the guys Mercedes-Benz. And it was in the news

Zolly99999 · Answer

Definitely... And the worst part is women are the biggest cheaters. They cheat waaaay more then men do. Because it's so easy for them too

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"Any guy who drives a car like that cheats." That is an award-winning comment, but probably not an award you want to receive!

Datboi65 · Answer

Hear that fellas? Next time a girl cheats on you, ruin her property. These girls have no sympathy whatsoever, so everything from here on is fair game.

EmmaMary · Answer

Personally I think she should have had it towed to a scrap yard and  Crushed !

Daniela1982 · Answer

Depends on how flagrant his cheating was and if he was married to her or just a boyfriend. Maybe if more women/men did this to cheaters they would think twice about cheating.

MrJMM · Answer

I would have done worse damage than just spray cheater. Like I don't know slashed the tires, break all the windows, the seats would be scratched and broken, the hood would be flattened, doors would be ripped apart, the windshield would be just gone, headlights taken apart, etc. I support this woman like Adultery is just a confirmation that cowards exist in houses, and their time will come.

ManOnFire · Answer

I agree with both you and her. Except for the part about any guy driving a car like that being a cheater. Although... you can argue that men with money may  possibly  be more prone to cheating? Still not sure. But I get both you and her.

CasaNorba · Answer

she went beyond far. judging by the car's license place this was not in america which I'm surprised cause these types of things are extremely common here

Adam1978 · Answer

No I think the cost of a paintjob isn't within the realms of what a cheater can expect. But it's kind of stupid to do it. It's so easy to prove who did this and they end up having to pay for the paint job. Independent if they cheated or not.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nah, it’s fairly mild tbh.

we once helped a friend fill her ex husbands car with rotten fish.

he left his sun roof partially open as he usually did.

we filled it with fish.

it was in the car about 6 hours in the sun lol.

TransAm85 · Answer

That car is hideous! Wtf is that? Range Rover? It looks like a hearse. Even the old Lincoln Town Cars were better looking for a hearse. I wouldn't pay $100k for that POS!

Bratsondanielle · Answer

Why would you have a car that's over $100,000 in the first place? We have lots of cars and other vehicle but having one car $100,000+ is just stupid

Snsl153 · Answer

A better question would be why anyone would pay over $100,000 for a car.

fonduegirl · Answer

If you earn so much money — pay a good old prostitute aye? Why play with a woman's feelings? Being rich doesn't justify cheating, bro. Very twisted logic there.

JSmuve · Answer

Well, if that's how she behaves, then she probably deserved to get cheated on. Lord knows what else she did to drive him to another woman.

lofii · Answer

She knew what she was getting herself into when she saw that niqqa pull up in that range rover sport. That niqqa piping down every buddy in a 15 mile radius for sure

Agape93 · Answer

She took it mildly. At very minimum he'd be single, if he gave me a disease due to his cheating, I'd have shot him.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like a lot of the women here are loo ey w the exception of a few of them. Imagine if you did that to her car all hell would break lose then.

Aurora1010 · Answer

I just don't give a crap about cheaters and their feelings, you know.  So I don't feel sorry for him at all.

BeMuse · Answer

You could tell the criminal was stupid. They referenced their relationship to the car owner. That generally narrows down the suspect pool.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

Put her in court. It's obvious who was is an easy win. Use the money to paint it again. Laugh in her face.

Anonymous · Answer

Never waste your time trying to make a logical point towards an emotionally driven being...

josephinelcajon · Answer

Cheating is a horrible thing to do. BUT this is too far. I could see glass paint on the glass but not paint on paint.

jshm2 · Answer

That shit isn't worth 100k  Also, paint is easily removed anyway. It's only if she's keyed it that it becomes a problem

exitseven · Answer

I think the guy had it coming. Like Billy Joel says" You pay for your satisfaction somewhere along the line. "

Anonymous · Answer

Women often act as if there's no consequences. Definitely sue for property damage.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Windows aren't smashed and tyres remain unslashed so no N. b. if I recall correctly this was actually part of a marketing campaign for the Range Rover

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Nah I have no respect for cheaters. If you cheat, you deserve to get your shit destroyed

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Yes and now she is committing a crime and making herself look bad

Gent207 · Answer

Legally? Yes Ethically? She could've done better destruction with words. But oh well

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

She's a idiot. I will make sure she pays my new paint job.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Hardly ruined, can just be resprayed. But yes, gone too far, I hope he presses charges

Anonymous · Answer

Most women take it to far because they never get held accountable.

Twalli · Answer

I wonder what kind of place you live in which a person's car choice determines their personality.

Shamalien · Answer

No broken windows even? I mean shiet a coat of paint and it’s fixed. I think this is immature but cheaters are trash sooo…

MysticDevice · Answer

In the words of Tallahasse, "Do what you want to a man, but do not fuck with his Cadillac."

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no. I mean I wouldn't do it and I don't think any woman should either. But if he really cheated, it's not like he didn't deserve it on some level.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

If he still has a penis he got off easily. Anyway if you don't want your 100k car "ruined" don't spend so much on a car.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

If what she did is illegal, yes. That said, I think cheating should literally be illegal and severely punished.

Anonymous · Answer

That's mild considering I escorted an ex out if my home at gun point and showed her family and friends the video of her fucking another guy..

OddBeMe · Answer

She opened herself up to vandalism when she could have taken his ass to court and owned that car.

driven159 · Answer

she could be arrested for that the spray paint will buff out so he isn't stuck with that

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