Do you think women are getting stronger and turning men into lapdogs?

[Anonymous]

Lapdog is a man who will do anything for woman

[PlacentaSalad]

If anything, I think it's more of a societal and cultural phenomenon than women "getting stronger." Whatever it is, would likely apply more towards younger generations of men than the older generations of men, who we can tell were raised with entirely different perspectives towards the opposing sex and just life in general. The gen Z term for your description of a "lapdog" is actually what they would label a "simp." But simps aren't really that common beyond certain spaces of the internet where they are able to congregate and exist as a group. And these men weren't turned into lapdogs, they are just desperate for female attention and believe the best way to acquire it is to do anything for her.

I think younger generations of men are simply just taking more of an interest in a woman's needs and are more empathetic and compassionate overall. Probably thanks to the internet being so widespread and accessible. Men might be more respectful and understanding but realistically, are not going to bend over backwards for a woman or just any woman. I think a man in love can find himself doing many things to make sure she is happy but I'm not really sure this would make him a lapdog. Women do a lot for love as well.

Man would not really allow himself to be turned into a lapdog unless he just has submissive tendencies, and lots of men are not submissive enough to do just anything for a woman, even if there is the promise of sex.

[Man-O-Metal]

I think a lot of it has to do with so many guys being slaves to por* and onlyf***. They turn themselves into degenerates that will do anything a woman commands because they're constantly losing masculinity. I wouldn't say women are becoming stronger. You hear all these onlyf*** girls saying "I'm strong and independent"... But if you take away all the money she gets from simpletons, she has no assets. If you work a job that has opportunity for growth, flexibility with position changes, and is a good resume builder, then you can call yourself independent because you'll most likely never be out of a job. All these submissive guys are deeply internally damaged and they just don't know it. It's not that women are becoming stronger. It's just the women who prefer dominance are finding submissive men.

[Mia-Wallace]

Nah. A lot of women and men are just becoming lonlier and sadder, and it only shows when they get past 35-40 and realize they have 30-40 years to live without all the advantages of youth.

Women only think they are "strong", because now they can make some money (and the vast majority of them aren't making that much money either).

In reality, life is too compelx to be beaten with relative financial independence and "getting ahead of men blah blah". You need to plan ahead for love, happiness, friends, your identity as you age, etc. Financial independence and ability to work is best when it helps achieving everything else that you need as you age.

Also even if life is about "strength" (it isn't), real strength is in your social status, not in what method you use to manipulate and dominate the opposite sex. You can have a man as your lapdog and still be a pathetic loser in terms of strength compared to your boss who lives in a mansion with his wife and 3 sons.

[lucas262]

Every time I hear a feminist say, they're independent. I ask myself. From what exactly?

Men? Big daddy government?

One day we'll all just be regular people

[EmyyWolf]

OMG that’s literally my sis and her boyfriend!
But NO I don’t think women are becoming stronger. Narcissistic Women who have a princess mindset tend to chose SIMP men so they can have full control.

My sister is just like that. I’m sure she’ll cheat on him one day cause she’s just that type of person. She said that he was a virgin before her, and I can tell it’s true. He’s a complete geek.

[Vegasrunner]

@EmyyWolf Yea, the irony of this is that only works for women w/ the men they dont want. When they try this behavior w/ a top tier man they are usually trained to be submissive or kicked to the curve.

[Lionman95]

Yes kind of, I feel like that could be one of the consequences of the current social developments for the future. It's not just the juridical situation it's the tendency in guys to step back and to submit to a woman's decision in the hope of pleasing her by it.
It could be that in the future even more guys turn out to be submissive because it's saver than fighting for your opinions.
It's saver because society is becoming more female and minority focused and our opinions are opposing those trends.
So either be pleasing and acknowledging her or fight for your self be called toxic and patriarchal is the situation think many guys find themselves in.

[kastra]

Highly agree, what I would add is that, this can also have the opposite effect for us in some situations. It has also now become trendy to do these things. I think it's good that women want to be respected, they deserve it like any human being, but at the same time society still needs to see things within reason. One good example is on the side of equality, we just saw the amber heard case play out while a man would've been completely cast out by society to almost complete exile, Amber continues to get interviews and articles to share her *definitely* false claims that are confirmed by evidence.

[DWornock]

Women adapt to society and utilize the laws, schools, colleges, and family courts to their advantage. In K through 12 public schools, boys are indoctrinated by women teachers (are there any other kind) to be be meek and subservient to women. Those that resist are tasered by the police and put on mood and behavior altering drugs.

Then if they attend college, they get more of it with women studies, and guilty if accused by female students. Clearly a hostile environment for young men. And, it continues by most employers with policies that greatly favor women. Also, that is reinforce by sexist ads that show strong women and men that are buffoons.

Finally, should men get married, the extremely bias family courts will prove to men that women are in charge and the men are only a wallet that must obey without question or go to jail.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Uhh nope? Unless that’s a fetish or something but no. There’s a difference in being strong and being aggressive. I think the average confident man will welcome a strong woman with open arms but an aggressive woman will have a difficult time with all men.

[Guy13]

LMAO... someone has been on the internet too long. Outside of places like San Francisco etc, you're not going to find that kind of thing. Last time i checked, women were 1.5 to every man... It's probably the same guys, occupying two women as not everyone is built or prepared to lead...

[ohsheeT]

Well I hope girls don't let that go to their head because 9 out of 10 times it's the guy still manipulating the girl to believe in something that's not right just to get what he wants the whole situation is f***** up if you ask me if it's even thought about in that manner you do things because you want to do it you do things because you want to help you do things because you're in love with the girl you don't do things and manipulate to get what you want

[Whatever2929292]

I want a woman who we would do anything for each other. It has to work both ways. Someone whose appreciative and not entitled I do a lot for.

A bitch I don't want to be around ever. There are women who want a man who works and earns all the money. But they also think it is sexist to have to do all the cooking, cleaning, etc. While he should have to work and do all that stuff...

Buy her shit. The list goes on.

[LilyoftheLake]

You know, back in the day, women liked men both loyal AND strong, but radical feminism seems to prefer them just loyal (hence the new lapdog breed). If we deny chivalry, we are left with only brutes and simps :(

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Chivalry is not women's to take. A man either is or isn't chivalrous. Any man that acts a certain way because supposedly women don't like that anymore is no man at all.

[LilyoftheLake]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8
On one hand, you have an EXCELLENT point. On the other, I feel that we as women need to accept some responsibility. Our main gift is influence, and when we influence you away from (or insist we don't like or want) chivalry, we are, to some extent, to blame.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

To some extent I agree. Emphasis on some.

[LilyoftheLake]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8
Works for me :D

[kellytheman]

I feel woman I not just getting stronger I do feel men are willing to do anything for a woman to make her happy. They might just do things to make it easier for them. If she happy he might get things he wants like maybe get sex or go out with his boys. "Happy wife happy life) the saying goes.

[anylolone]

More like the contrary, to the extreme. I don't mean men are getting stronger and turning women into lapdogs.

I mean everybody (women specially) are getting cripplingly weak and if people are dogs, they are anything but lapdogs.
I'd say people are turning into starving wild packless wolves.

[ChrisMaster69]

Nope not a chance.

might be depending on culture and society, however I don’t see it that way.

There is a pecking order and I know who will be kneeling.

[shaysh87]

i think men have always been lapdops. its just that women were never free to embrace the power they had due to patriarchy and sexism. women use sex to get what they want all the time. 50 years ago, women would be persecuted for having casual sex

[Berethor]

It's not so much women getting stronger as it men getting weaker, women prefer to be submissive.

[MzAsh]

You do realize this refers to bdsm and not life roles, correct?

[Berethor]

Don't matter to me, it shows how vast majority of women don't care about feminism.

[MzAsh]

That’s not what it means in the slightest. Most women absolutely DO have some feminist beliefs. Also, when it comes to bdsm, women prefer to be dominated when SHE says you can. In other words, she’s in charge.

[Anonymous]

Stronger? Today's women are not stronger than women of the past. If anything it's the opposite. They are just more obnoxious and have less feminine appeal to good men.

But when the only men "women" like you can actually attract are effeminate soy boys then I can understand why you think that way.

[MzAsh]

Women are getting stronger and that threatens weak men.

[Kaneki05]

It's becoming more accepted as women are no longer locked away in a kitchen so 100% yes. But also this isn't a negative it can be but if your talking about guys who like it and willing not really.

[BeMuse]

Marriage rates are down, divorce rates are up, and fertility is down. Those are strong indicators that women are less desirable and have lost a significant amount of position in society...

[LovingLoverReturned]

A few men are becoming lapdogs, not due to women's strength... sometimes due to mental conditions such as masochism... lol...

[Chazmatazz269]

No. Women have manipulated the system in order to castrate men. We’re rapidly escalating toward anarchy and THEN we’ll see how “strong” women are. Ell oh ell!

[Freyke]

I just told my girlfriend to sit up straight, put her head up, open her mouth and I threw her a treat to catch. No I don't feel they're getting stronger 👍
But I do not feel stronger or think of her as a pet. We just think it's fun to do.

[Dargil]

Only the guys who are in it for pussy.