Yeah but most millennial men are getting married later (including myself still haven’t found the right woman yet) . Back when most millennial men were in there early 20s couldn’t afford to become married because of school. It’s the new normal that started with out generation compared to older generations.
U are only getting married later because women want to fuck with hot guys in their 20's and then come to guys like yourself as their retirement plan in their 30's and beyond.
1. Commitment is a dieing trait. Most people don't want to put in the effort.
2. People are much more independent and are not as afraid to be alone. Expecially weman.
3. Men are getting beat on more. Becoming less and less emotionally available.
4. We don't learn from our mistakes until it's too late. And a lesson will continue to be taught until it is learned.
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Women have made marriage so risky and costly to men, and casual sex so cheap, it's no mystery why the marriage rate is at an all time low and continuing to plummet. And at the same time women as a whole are less happy today than at any point in recorded history.
I don't know whether most women are destined to be spinsters, but they are destined to be miserable and to make men miserable as well.
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Most likely I find a lot of them attractive physically mentality disgusting and I wouldn't date them They all used up 30
The time for me to marry a millinak women was 6 years ago. But now they can't offering me nothing.
It's sad because I wanted somebody who shared my childhood.
Just look at the statistics. Marriage rates are falling, divorce rates are increasing, fertility rates are falling and use of anti-depressants is also increasing.
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A lot of women today (the younger generation) seem to embrace that spinsterhood mantra in my opinion. I'm sorry girls - your career, your friends and your pet dog Roofus isn't the same of finding the right guy or man, just my two cents. Please don't clap back and say "how dare you!"
Hopefully. We have too many people and most of them are dumb ("stop the steal" types, and unhinged people who throw their lunch at the wall, etc). So I'm all for reducing the population. :)
That's an old term from an old time. We do not have to use those kinds of terms. I think if a woman is unmarried, but happy with her life, single or not, then I am happy for them.
Im example of it. Im not married never had been married, I dont have kids either,. Im single and im not dating or seeing someone and I dont have a boyfriend, I had been like this for more than 40 years of my life.
@dustybiker That's not what that means. You (the collective "you"/ women in general) can easily get a man, but still be a spinster. The issue isn't getting the man; the issue is keeping him.
@Jamie05rhs Keeping a man is easy. It’s if a woman wants to keep them. Not everyone (man or woman) is easy to live with. Not everyone wants to live with someone.
@dustybiker It's not her choice to make alone. It's a 2-way street. He has to want it as well. If he doesn't want a relationship, period, then there's nothing that any woman can do to force him to stay.
@Jamie05rhs It’s always a choice to leave a relationship. That would be one that was never going to work anyway. People rarely leave when they are happy.
@dustybiker Okay, but the point is -- and this is what I really want you to try your best to understand, because I think it's really important -- is that some men simply Do Not Want to be tied down. Period. With any woman. For any reason whatsoever. And women need to learn how to recognize this trait in men. Because it could save them a lot of heartache.
Unfortunately I am. Always wanted and hoped for a little family of my own. But at this rate that dream will probably not come true.
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A lot of females dont comprehend that not many men see a reason to date longterm when kids aren't involved. What else is there to a relationship. Morning coffees? Hence the ones without kids will end up alone crying themselves to sleep 5 nights a week. Smoking weed or sniffing cocaine the other two nights.
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Yeah but most millennial men are getting married later (including myself still haven’t found the right woman yet) . Back when most millennial men were in there early 20s couldn’t afford to become married because of school. It’s the new normal that started with out generation compared to older generations.
U are only getting married later because women want to fuck with hot guys in their 20's and then come to guys like yourself as their retirement plan in their 30's and beyond.
I would say yes. Guys as well.
1. Commitment is a dieing trait. Most people don't want to put in the effort.
2. People are much more independent and are not as afraid to be alone. Expecially weman.
3. Men are getting beat on more. Becoming less and less emotionally available.
4. We don't learn from our mistakes until it's too late. And a lesson will continue to be taught until it is learned.
Women have made marriage so risky and costly to men, and casual sex so cheap, it's no mystery why the marriage rate is at an all time low and continuing to plummet. And at the same time women as a whole are less happy today than at any point in recorded history.
I don't know whether most women are destined to be spinsters, but they are destined to be miserable and to make men miserable as well.
Most likely I find a lot of them attractive physically mentality disgusting and I wouldn't date them They all used up 30
The time for me to marry a millinak women was 6 years ago. But now they can't offering me nothing.
It's sad because I wanted somebody who shared my childhood.
But I just date Gen z or Zillennial women.
Just look at the statistics. Marriage rates are falling, divorce rates are increasing, fertility rates are falling and use of anti-depressants is also increasing.
A lot of women today (the younger generation) seem to embrace that spinsterhood mantra in my opinion. I'm sorry girls - your career, your friends and your pet dog Roofus isn't the same of finding the right guy or man, just my two cents. Please don't clap back and say "how dare you!"
Hopefully. We have too many people and most of them are dumb ("stop the steal" types, and unhinged people who throw their lunch at the wall, etc). So I'm all for reducing the population. :)
those I know in my life, obviously not...
about the other one or two billion other millenialls in this world, no idea
That's an old term from an old time. We do not have to use those kinds of terms.
I think if a woman is unmarried, but happy with her life, single or not, then I am happy for them.
Im example of it. Im not married never had been married, I dont have kids either,. Im single and im not dating or seeing someone and I dont have a boyfriend, I had been like this for more than 40 years of my life.
What do you mean destined? They already are spinsters! Millennials are forty. Charlize Theron is not going to having children.
I think its the same for men. Its just that people only shame single women, never single men.
According to some men it’s easy for woman to get a man. So with their ideas. No. She could be with anyone at any time.
@dustybiker That's not what that means. You (the collective "you"/ women in general) can easily get a man, but still be a spinster. The issue isn't getting the man; the issue is keeping him.
@Jamie05rhs I was only being sarcastic.
Okay. But I was actually being serious. :)
@Jamie05rhs Keeping a man is easy. It’s if a woman wants to keep them. Not everyone (man or woman) is easy to live with. Not everyone wants to live with someone.
@dustybiker It's not her choice to make alone. It's a 2-way street. He has to want it as well. If he doesn't want a relationship, period, then there's nothing that any woman can do to force him to stay.
@Jamie05rhs It’s always a choice to leave a relationship. That would be one that was never going to work anyway. People rarely leave when they are happy.
@dustybiker Okay, but the point is -- and this is what I really want you to try your best to understand, because I think it's really important -- is that some men simply Do Not Want to be tied down. Period. With any woman. For any reason whatsoever. And women need to learn how to recognize this trait in men. Because it could save them a lot of heartache.
I'm just trying to help. 💜
@Jamie05rhs Simply not true in all men my friend.
@dustybiker I never said it was all men. It's CERTAIN men.
I dont think this is restricted to women. I think there is also plenty young men staying single until 40. Its not a gender specific thing.
44% of millennial women are married and an additional 12% are living unmarried with a partner, so no most millennial women aren’t spinsters.
Lol. 56%. That's just over half.
I guess the other 44% "don't count;" right?
I can't say "most" of them, but I can say that it is definitely A LOT more than now. There is indeed going to be a major influx for sure.
Unfortunately I am. Always wanted and hoped for a little family of my own. But at this rate that dream will probably not come true.
A lot of females dont comprehend that not many men see a reason to date longterm when kids aren't involved. What else is there to a relationship. Morning coffees? Hence the ones without kids will end up alone crying themselves to sleep 5 nights a week. Smoking weed or sniffing cocaine the other two nights.
Better than having kids to me tbh
Not a majority of them, but more of them may be single moms or never get married than previous generations.
It sure looks that way. Young fokes just don’t want a family. It is probably better because of the way that this country and the world are changing.