Do you think most millennial women are destined for spinsterhood?

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markml · Accepted Answer

Not all but this is sadly probably the outcome for many.

College is a big part of the problem, because it is brainwashing people with woke ideology and third-wave feminism. You should only go to college if you're planning to get a STEM degree, or if you can mentally filter the propaganda.

Women who don't go to college can come out okay, if they are lucky enough to pick the right man. However, those women tend to be rather naive and ignorant about the world, so the chances they get their heart broken and end up divorced is quite high. Once they've been divorced, they're about as cynical as the ones who got brainwashed in college.

As for men, this is the first generation where nearly everyone has had widespread access to porn from a young age. That's largely changed how a lot of men perceive women, and turned more men into womanizers. Women who are ignorant to this are more likely to find themselves getting exploited, and thus become cynical.

Now add to this the sins of the previous generation. A lot of Millennials' parents were reckless, got knocked up on drugs and later divorced. So many broken homes. This only exacerbates the culture of cynicism. And so many women are filled with unrealistic expectations and deep-seated subconscious fears that having a successful marriage is a fairy tale.

And of course, as Millennials screw up even more than their parents did, Gen-Z is probably going to be even worse.

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

Yes at least some, I dont think most though. Since many guys don't know how and when to approach because there are not that many time spots over the day or they themselves have enough issues of them own that keeps them from doing so.
Besides that I feel like the understanding and knowledge of the opposite sex is rather going down than up and there is a growing hostility on social media for both of them that I feel like many guys are not really fond of marriage because they can listen to and read so many experiences and blogs where guys talk about cheated on, blackmailed or tricked by their wife/spouse/girlfriend that they feel like a guy can never trust a woman.
It works in some feminist cases the other way round as well telling women that they should never depend on a guy, that all guys are just in for the sex, that guys are jerks and just want to control and own a woman.
Therefore I consider chances low that a woman might find a partner that she could fall in love with that really understands her to have a longterm marriage until the end of life.

TenderFantasy · Accepted Answer

Well I'm an early Millenial (born in '84).

I could have VERY well probably been a single mother back when I was young and dating considering the horrible men I chose! 'Thank God' for Birth Control working all the time? !

Some women, Millenial or not Millenial will ALWAYS look for excuses to reproduce their damn genes lol, even if it's by any Tom, DIck, or Harry! Aka someone they just met yesterday!

But then yeah, I believe you are correct with this, I don't know why a lot of people are disagreeing with you on this. Maybe they just want to believe what they want to believe and look away from the truth. In other words, in DENIAL!

With Birth Control working perfectly these days (unless a woman really secretly and subconsciously WANTS a child and therefore "FORGETS" to take her pill and lies to her partner about it), then, yeah, I agree with you in that we are going to see more and more childless/childfree, unmarried/unpartnered women!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Most men want a traditional wife but they refuse to fulfill THEIR traditional role that men made up for themselves as providers. This is why straight married men live longer and straight married women die sooner.

Modern men want a woman who works a full-time job, pays 50/50, AND does all the cooking, cleaning, family organization, and childcare. There is no benefit for women because their workload and stress is just increased to the workload of two people.

Straight married women are also the least likely to orgasm during sex and the most likely to be murdered by their partners, they also report the lowest rates of happiness and life satisfaction!

Women are going to remain single or marry other women more and more in the coming years.

Lookingforthetruth · Answer

Yep. Just go on social media and you see tons of these girls complaining about current dating today.

Let me break down what happening.

1. Women chase small group of men over and over for sex and relationships and keep the rest of men on a shelf to use as backup.

2. Women who fail to snag their dream guy then go to these men later in life.

3. Due to more women going to college, misandry of modern society, economy going to hell and men not seeing a point in working themselves to death, you are going to have shortage of beta bux. For the men who can play the beta bux game in their 30's, many of them are either choosing to remain single or play women's desire for commitment for easy sex.

4. Women will then deem not enough 'good men' for marriage/LTR; there already articles about this.

5. Women then choose to remain single, go to girl's night out with their friends, use pets as proxies for children in order to cope with not starting a family. Some will choose to get knocked up by a hot guy off tinder/newest hookup app and become a single mother.

6. All in all the only people who benefit from this are the Chads and Staceys.

sage2021 · Answer

Yes, unfortunately. From what I have gathered from the guys on this website, they aren't likin' the way these ladies are. I think most of them prefer a more old fashioned lady that wants a family, take care of their home, cook, clean, love. But most women in that age group are more into being "empowered" and have career's. I realize women say they can have both, but it's not the same. Someone will get neglected eventually, job or family. It's bad enough that parents are in their cellphone so much, and their family needs their attention. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

You make it sound like that's such a bad thing-

I'm a millennial, and I've already surrendered to the fact I will probably wind up single the rest of my life (thankfully I don't want or like kids so that part doesn't phase me). Sorry, but I rather focus on myself, goals in life, finding a career that fulfills my needs and wants in life, and being happy- without or without a partner.

People accuse millennials of being "selfish," however, I think we've just watched previous generations and realize we're not going to settle just for the sake of being in a relationship and risk divorce or winding up in an unhappy relationship.

Now I just need to find me a nice house in Miami, three other women I can tolerate living and loving life with, maybe a dog, and we can spend our golden years having fun.

Do you think most millennial women are destined for spinsterhood?

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I don't know, I have literally had to choose to be single when I wanted to. It sure is fun to be single sometimes, instead of always having a line of guys just waiting for me to break up.

Being single was often a blast, but sooner or later I'd get lonely and back into a relationship.

Then again, it does seem like a lot of people are extremely picky these days, both men and women... they want (insert personal choices) and I think, oh god they are looking for a single electron in a massive universe. A needle in a haystack would have a billion time better odds.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

No.

I think once reality sets in for those with too high standards there will be plenty of men around still. Even if it's not what they're looking for.
Historically according to gene-studies 30% of born men NEVER reproduce due to death, health, unattractiveness (superficial or not) or just not being prefered among the choosing ones. That number is assumed to have gone down to 20% in modern times.
Compared to women where less than 10% NEVER reproduce.

I think realisticly men will bend to women as we always do in the end. Nature is too strong and the ones (both genders) that will wait the longest will be more pairings of desperation but as usual there will almost always be a man willing to take an lower than average woman just to get the chance.

Rather I think men who don't get it together and get in the game no matter how awful it currently is, won't get to be choosy in the end. If at all..

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I don't think so.

If anything, I think more women are now more empowered to live their lives the way they wish. And that's pretty damn attractive to the right kinds of people.

Some of us may even choose spinsterhood, because that was always our aesthetic. Others may discover we're gay as fuck and don't even like men, and we have more abiity now than ever before to marry same sex.

It's definitely better now than before. It's still terrible and bad, but it is MUCH better than what we had before.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Our nursing homes will be like magical faery cottages that attract tourists (income) and provide a safe place for other younger women running away from domestic violence situations, and we will have many areas for children to come and place.

We will be very happy with our flower arranging classes, knitting circles, abundance of cats, and monthly cookie bake offs. On the first Friday of every months we will have a Fashion show where we show off our handmade "vintage" looks and every summer we will enjoy the harvest from our raised bed community gardens. Every Friday we will have poetry circles and gather in a nondominational workship service where we pray for our companions who have moved on to the spirit world.

Reaper1985 · Answer

the internet ruined long term relationships for many people because until it became widely used. most people would often be stuck with only the local dating pool to pick from. so many couples would start dating while still in school and then go on to build a life together.

the internet gave more people the ability to date or hookup with those outside the local dating pool. so it causes an influx of people engaging in short term relationships based on lust rather then promoting long term relationships based on love.

it also showed many guys that modern legal marriage is a raw deal for them rather often. once they hear how other guys have gotten screwed over by the courts in divorce/custody cases. because out dated laws but in place many years ago regarding relationships and/or parenthood favor girls more then guys.

globetrotter22 · Answer

Yep and it’s their own choice. There have been long term studies done that modern women have much higher rates of depression, unhappiness and suicidal thoughts vs women in the early 1970s.

However this is impacting men too. There are many more single unmarried men nowadays vs 40 years ago. But women are usually the ones who get to say yes or no relationships, marriage and kids. The single hood issue with men is a byproduct of modern female decision making.

If men and women were truly happier in modern times that would be one thing. But their not. I personally believe that feminism is the primary culprit for this.

Moose304 · Answer

No, I don't, unless, of course, this is what they want. Remember there are two sides to this coin. The older a female gets the pool of available men gets smaller because of life expectancies. I also will include generation X in this my next point. I know many women that do live alone but are part of a group of people that are friends with benefits. I am a male, but I have several friends with benefits. These women will not be spinsters, they will adjust, in fact, more and more are doing so every day! The true problem, however, will come from having a huge amount of single-income homes. This is going to be a huge thing going forward.

Gaibriel · Answer

Str8 men really be acting like str8 women can't live without a man lol.

I ain't str8 so that's why I worded it like that.

I think some choose it and some don't.

We shouldn't shame anyone for remaining single whether it's a choice or not.

Focus on yourself and find ways to lift people up not tear down people because of their lifestyle.

hIopinionated_ · Answer

That word literally applies to everyone.

The issue though it that people are using it as an insult as if being unmarried is a bad thing lol. Being unmarried is great. Plus, studies have shown women live longer and are happier without husbands and kids but the opposite for men. Therefore, of course made up words will be used as insults against happy women because honestly, marriage only benefits men

ohsheeT · Answer

No matter who you are in life no matter what time you were born we all have a calling we are all teachers we are all guides it's our choice who we want to be by the things we say and do and some of us walk into it and some of us fight to get there same with you you have a very beautiful passion and desire you love feeling things deeply and that choice of who you are and what you want to be will guide you to whatever you're seeking same with everybody else

Anonymous · Answer

No because most women have until their late 20’s to birth more BRATS.
Some women CHOOSE to be single on their own.

Most men in this decade have become more feminine than ever and soy boys. The masculinity has vanished. And it has nothing to do with the feminists. Food and water and infused with estrogens and flouride. It’s greatly affecting MEN.

I don’t blame women for NOT BEING ATTRACTED.

SiberFox · Answer

I hope not, but many are setting themselves up for it. I hope there's a big movement soon that blows the lid on these problems and ladies realise their mistakes. Should women change their ways and return to valuing themselves and their intimacy, men will have to step up and do the same.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Meh... millennial women are stubborn, but most of them aren't stupid; they recognize that a lot of men are super NOT down with dating them. I'm not sure that they've quite put together why that is, but you have to give points when they earn them. Realistically, something WILL change about the way they approach men.

Anonymous · Answer

The institution of marriage no longer exist among most of the population. Its name has been redefined to refer to an undesirable legal proclamation of a feeling. As if we needed the state's permission to love anyone.

Until the original Institution of marriage is reintroduced there is no security for families, and a significant chance any woman who has children could end up as a single mom.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Most millennial men are getting married even later than women so yes. This trend has been happening for a while now compared to the avg age of a woman in past generations. You can thank low wage growth , high education costs, higher home costs, higher everything else costs when adjusted for inflation. This generation has been handed garbage. I'd gather to say when most millennials were 21 year old they couldn't afford rent let alone be married because of the above stated.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely. They believed the bullshit Disney fed them and grew up impossibly entitled.

The amount of 40 year olds who reach for the Divorce button only to regret it later (when they realise that dating in their 40s is not like dating in their 20s) is staggering.

Deku2009 · Answer

Yeah but most millennial men are getting married later (including myself still haven’t found the right woman yet) . Back when most millennial men were in there early 20s couldn’t afford to become married because of school. It’s the new normal that started with out generation compared to older generations.

Pohjolan · Answer

Destined? Of course not. They have it way easier and way more options when it comes to finding a mate.
Its just a paradox of choice where having many options to choose from, rather than making people happy and ensuring they get what they want, can cause them stress and problematize decision-making.

Neilbud · Answer

I would say yes. Guys as well.

1. Commitment is a dieing trait. Most people don't want to put in the effort.

2. People are much more independent and are not as afraid to be alone. Expecially weman.

3. Men are getting beat on more. Becoming less and less emotionally available.

4. We don't learn from our mistakes until it's too late. And a lesson will continue to be taught until it is learned.

Anonymous · Answer

Women have made marriage so risky and costly to men, and casual sex so cheap, it's no mystery why the marriage rate is at an all time low and continuing to plummet. And at the same time women as a whole are less happy today than at any point in recorded history.

I don't know whether most women are destined to be spinsters, but they are destined to be miserable and to make men miserable as well.

NathanDavis · Answer

those I know in my life, obviously not... about the other one or two billion other millenialls in this world, no idea

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of women today (the younger generation) seem to embrace that spinsterhood mantra in my opinion. I'm sorry girls - your career, your friends and your pet dog Roofus isn't the same of finding the right guy or man, just my two cents. Please don't clap back and say "how dare you!"

Anonymous · Answer

Most likely I find a lot of them attractive physically mentality disgusting and I wouldn't date them They all used up 30

The time for me to marry a millinak women was 6 years ago. But now they can't offering me nothing.

It's sad because I wanted somebody who shared my childhood.

But I just date Gen z or Zillennial women.

Kaamraj · Answer

Just look at the statistics. Marriage rates are falling, divorce rates are increasing, fertility rates are falling and use of anti-depressants is also increasing.

supercutebutt · Answer

Hopefully. We have too many people and most of them are dumb ("stop the steal" types, and unhinged people who throw their lunch at the wall, etc). So I'm all for reducing the population. :)

GreatnessBack · Answer

That's an old term from an old time. We do not have to use those kinds of terms.  I think if a woman is unmarried, but happy with her life, single or not, then I am happy for them.

kitty71 · Answer

Im example of it. Im not married never had been married, I dont have kids either,. Im single and im not dating or seeing someone and I dont have a boyfriend, I had been like this for more than 40 years of my life.

Part2603 · Answer

What do you mean destined? They already are spinsters! Millennials are forty. Charlize Theron is not going to having children.

Haha456 · Answer

I think its the same for men. Its just that people only shame single women, never single men.

dustybiker · Answer

According to some men it’s easy for woman to get a man. So with their ideas. No. She could be with anyone at any time.

shaysh87 · Answer

I dont think this is restricted to women. I think there is also plenty young men staying single until 40. Its not a gender specific thing.

MzAsh · Answer

44% of millennial women are married and an additional 12% are living unmarried with a partner, so no most millennial women aren’t spinsters.

TruthBringer · Answer

I can't say "most" of them, but I can say that it is definitely A LOT more than now. There is indeed going to be a major influx for sure.

Lucy68 · Answer

Unfortunately I am. Always wanted and hoped for a little family of my own. But at this rate that dream will probably not come true.

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of females dont comprehend that not many men see a reason to date longterm when kids aren't involved. What else is there to a relationship. Morning coffees? Hence the ones without kids will end up alone crying themselves to sleep 5 nights a week. Smoking weed or sniffing cocaine the other two nights.

Avicenna · Answer

Not a majority of them, but more of them may be single moms or never get married than previous generations.

jengeorge26 · Answer

It sure looks that way. Young fokes just don’t want a family. It is probably better because of the way that this country and the world are changing.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

A majority of them will certainly be destined for it. You don't get far in your love life if you go out your way to be disrespectful, manipulative, carrying a big ego, and/or promiscuous.

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Yes I do because you rather chase your career at a young age and think marriage a relationship and family will just fall out of the sky by 40 they know absolutely nothing about men or how to treat or bea wife to one

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Well I would hazard a guess no, as I don’t think humanity is suddenly going to go extinct that way.

RealMarek · Answer

Perhaps after divorce, yes. Many Gen-Z women are destined for spinsterhood outright.

HighValue · Answer

The ones that are feminists, liberal/democrats, etc. are most likely.

es20490446e · Answer

A woman to be happy in a family shall look for a kind partner early on, have children early, and only if time allows make a career.

BoobMan · Answer

Seems unlikely. The vast majority of people still get married and have kids at some point in their lives.

007kingifrit · Answer

yea they seem really broken and unhappy. even in their 30s they are unapproachable and lonely and constantly high maintenance and depressed... who needs em? I'll find a happier younger girl

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Increasingly as things get progressively worse. We’re in the middle of a 4th turning.

Cubus · Answer

Maybe not "most" but more than previous generations. Sadly it's gonna cause catastrophic effects on society and economy.

OddBeMe · Answer

Younger people are going more childless. But with 8 bill people, it’s a good thing.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Oh, HE11 yes. Absofuckinglutely. I've never been more sure of anything in my entire life.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's true of both millennial men and women. Marriage is in deep shit, and that's not a good thing for society in the long run.

Anonymous · Answer

They’ll probably Spin around with there head cut off for another 75 years by 100 years The internet will no Longer exist and I will have become (KING)

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, but it's cool because they won't figure that out till they're past 40. They still got a lot of significant years. to go.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Why do people still think that women have to get married

Po1989 · Answer

Probably more than in previous generations, but I'm not sure if that's most.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not. Eventually, the hormones kick in and they just have to have a kid. I've seen it among the most independent women of my generation too.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

well, everyone seems to be hook up when they are horny so what do you need relationship for?

madetostroke · Answer

they don;t want to have kids  so  I have no idea what they are gonna do

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