Ladies, do you believe you bring peace and harmony into your man's life?

[KrakenAttackin]

YES, I bring peace and harmony into my man's life..

NO, I do not bring peace and harmony into my man's life.

[meetkitty123]

I have been told by the men I have been with that I do have a calming affect on them and that Im very good at problem solving. I also make certain to thank them compliment them and reassure them if they are feeling down. I have always gone out of my way to make sure they are content and any problems they may have I always do all I can to help them solve the issues and if I can't fix it I seek someone who can. With the exception to 2 I have remain friends/acquaintances with exs. In some circumstances I have even helped them out even after the break up. One scenario was during a nor'Easter. I contacted my sons father to let him bid our son goodnight since he couldn't pick him up for the night due to the storm. I discovered my ex car broke down he was stranded on the side of some back road. He was informed he be there a long while since town officials were in chaos from the storm and at the same time there was several major accidents on the highway taking priority. Though I had no romantic feelings towards him it still frightened me to think of my sons dad coming to harm. So I called in a favor. My father was head of the towns vehicles mechanic department. I informed my father of the situation and he sent 2 of his workers with town trucks to plow that back road. Normally it would be one of the last roads done since its not a priority road. the men picked up my ex and dropped him off at his parents home who lived near by.
Anyhow as much as I try to be a good woman I'd be lying if I say I have never had a moment where I was a pain in the ass. I'll admit I get a little snappy when im ovulating (easily soothed over with a few orgasms) and I get snappy during pms usually 2hrs to 30 mins before my period starts. But im not saying I direct this snappiness purposely towards my man. It just happens that sometimes it may end up directed at him. Regardless I always apologize if my snappiness is directed at a person.
Anyhow I am normally level headed but sometimes things happens that may drive me to become uptight and overwhelmed like unexpected expenses or floods. My region is prone to flood. I become a drill sergeant when we get the alert for flash flooding. I may be small and only 5'2 but I'm a take charge type of person. I Boss out orders such as get the hoses pass me the sump pumps. Quick kill the power to the basement wall... I bark orders but Im in hyperdrive sleeves rolled up working viciously to accomplish what must be done. And if the basement was already taking in water I guarantee you Im the first one jumping in getting soaked if need be to get stuff done all the while ditching out orders as I work.
I See this take charge personality of mine during strenuous situations as me being difficult however several times when I have apologized afterwards for being a pain in the ass during such times of urgency I've been laughed at pulled into the guys arms and told Im adorable and where would they be without me or something along those lines...
Um 🤷 ☺️ I dont know I swear im a pain during such times but they seem happy afterwards... Maybe they're just relieved and happy Im done barking orders and Im back to my sweet little self 🙈
Anyhow I truly do aim to please and help a man Im with.

[EmmaMary]

I can only hope that I do... Over the years I have been told many times that I do possess a very calming influence.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[hahahmm]

From a traditional pov... women are like fire & a man is supposed to be like the rocks of a campfire. But these days a lot of confused/brainwashed people mean men are acting like sawdust & women like a landscape full of gasoline. A lot of people don't see the dangers cause they've been programmed not to see. So fro my pov the problems are never just 1 gender... but it's the foolish people in both genders. And the rest of us will have to clean up the ashes later.

[KrakenAttackin]

@hahahmm Exceptionally well said!

[OlderAndWiser]

My girfriend is a calming influence in my life. Big time!

[KrakenAttackin]

@OlderAndWiser. You are a lucky man.

[OlderAndWiser]

I appreciate your sentiments but I would acribe the results to a very long search process that proceeded with much painful trial and error. I'm SURE you understand! :) :) :)

[KrakenAttackin]

@OlderAndWiser. You did an extended reconnaissance! I do completely understand.

[Guy13]

😂 😂🤣🤣. Don’t he know that I’m the she devil from hell…and we all are…I’m so tired of these Gsmes.. “Of course we bring Peace” ☮️

[Anonymous]

I thinks good women do, or try to. A lot do the opposite though.

[worldscolide]

My wife does for me. When I come home she tries to make it as stress free as possible for me.

[IsoUser]

A gangbanger snitch lie you, Your whole family is dea2

[Anonymous]

Women don’t bring peace and harmony. Money it all it matters

[TrueConfection]

I try, but when he's stressed I stress and when I stress, no one gets peace or harmony.

[KrakenAttackin]

@TrueConfection. At least you are honest.

[msc545]

No, they bring misery and conflict.

[Bratsondanielle]

I believe that I do. At least I hope so.

[TacosRAwesome]

I tried to but couldn't manage.

[Tornado92]

White woman are the trouble 🤣