Why do little girls have to wear tops at the beach?

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I have 7 year old boy/girl twins. I can easily explain that he wears bigger swim bottoms than she does because boys and girls are not the same below the waist.

But I can never explain to my daughter why she needs a top and her brother does not. I always just tell her “Eh, society.” She has the exact same tiny nipples that her brother does.

DoctorSex · Accepted Answer

Sometimes the best answer, is usually the simplest.

Something's just don't need to be explained, is the simple answer.

You tell her the dress code for men and women. That's what being a parent is all about my dear. You know better for a child and it is your job to guide them into functioning Respectful members of society. A childs job is to trust you have the best intentions for them. And young children do for the most part...

As they grow older, society will show them through experiences, how women who don't observe social customs are dealt with. Same with men who don't observe social customs, like assault.

Society is the best teacher of tough to explain lessons.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

In the first place, she's only 7 so, don't make her wear one.
Secondly, she really shouldn't HAVE to wear one even when she gets older. As you said, she's got the same nipples as him. Why does she have to cover them but he doesn't? Besides, the only difference between them is that her tits will get a lot bigger but, she'll be allowed to show as much of those as she wants, as long as her nipples are covered, which he's got, too so, why doesn't he have to cover his? Doesn't make any sense to me!
You could always get some of those round Band-Aids and put one on each of her nipples. I've seen grown women do that.

KrisPW · Accepted Answer

I think she should be allowed to do whatever the others are doing as long as she is comfortable with it. If she's the only girl and you both feel safe with the boy (s), then she can wear what they are wearing. If she's the only little girl running around topless and the other girls are wearing theirs, she'll likely want it on anyway. That's how I was.

We had a isolated back yard, I felt safe with my brothers around, and rarely wore much. None of us did. But when other girls were around, I wanted to be like them. So if there was a mix of girls doing suits / topless / no suits, I was usually on the bare side. If every other girl was wearing her top, I wanted to wear my top.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Why don't you let her not use the top, unless she wants to? is someone threatening to give you a ticket or something?

I can't imagine anyone caring about that and if they do, they are probably a pervert that likes little girls.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I think nobody should have to wear tops. Tits are not all that when everyone has their tits out. The thing with prepubescent girls and tits... fuck man, I guess the only answer I could come up with is "Eh, society" as well. It makes no sense and I would assume most people would agree that it doesn't matter if a little girl does that. ... then again Joe Biden might show up and fall off his bike and want to sniff her hair... so yeah.

laurieluvsit · Answer

In California it is legal to be nude on any beach through the age of 12 for both genders, although no parent allows it except at nude beaches. It might be that way in your state as well, you should check.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Because in the United States there is enough moral police patrolling around that it may as well be called the "Iran of the West". :-|

Birdlegs · Answer

I don’t think they have to. Since women can go around topless if they want I’d assume little girls could too

Guy13 · Answer

Show her her nipples now and at 15 year old pic in magazine. "Do you want everyone to see those?" Does that make sense?

boggboss · Answer

There are no laws that make u have too apart from people's opinions once boobs grow out people make the argument that they are seen as sexual

_deeznuts · Answer

no idea why little girls have to wear tops, but my mom just made my brother wear a top to bcs she believed that kids shouldn't be shirtless.

JohnK123 · Answer

She doesn’t have too… plenty of girls go topless especially at the beach if they aren’t developed yet… ever see half naked babies? Yeah it’s not uncommon

Fireguy17 · Answer

Because there are perverts out there that like that, and they take pictures.

joeldalton · Answer

I'm not aware of any law that requires such; but you bought the tops when you bought her bathing suit... might as well wear them.

Anonymous · Answer

Because women have breasts and society doesn't think bare breasts are acceptable in public.

Avicenna · Answer

You'd have to ask their parents

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