Girls, Is a womans body count an indicator of whether she can be loyal, will cheat, or is capable of being a good mother?

[Anonymous]

I've asked this same question to men. I will reveal their answers after this poll closes

[jennifer_bloom]

I think the probably of divorce is between 50-95% lower if her husband is her first bed partner. Not sure about mother hood cause I did not view the stats about that. But I think the main trait of good mothers is she cares more about people then money. Materialistic women teach bad morals to their kids, abuse their husbands in front of them and do not show affection to their offspring.

[Asker]

Thanks for the input

[Anonymous]

No, because these “body counts” are measured in instances where women (and the same for men as well) are in non-committed positions (e. g. friends with benefits, random hookups with no strings attached, etc.). Once that person gets into a committed relationship, then the situation is different.


If you want to compare what an individual would do when in a committed relationship, you must compare it with past committed relationships (e. g. did they cheat then, did they keep their promises and do their job/responsibilities, etc.).

[Asker]

No, a body count is how many men you've slept with, period. When the count was accumulated is a question worth exploring, but that is not what dictates what is counted verses what isn't.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t recall ever saying what dictates what is counted vs. not counted, nor that relationship partners weren’t counted… 🙄

Did you have an actual rebuttal or…?

[fonduegirl]

Does a man's high body count influence the above aspects? Why hold different standards for men and women? A child needs both parents, yes?

[Asker]

I can see a man's body count is a topic you'd like to discuss. It should be discussed. But this isn't the place. Answer the question i posted here, or get lost.

[fonduegirl]

It doesn't matter. It's all in the past. Unless she's STDs or a child from her previous engagements.

[Anonymous]

I fucked a lot of guys in middle school and high school but I'm settling down more now and I don't think I will cheat when I get married.

[Asker]

What's a lot?

[Ihelppeoplebymilo]

As a women, no

[Asker]

Say a man has a body count of 100. Is that too much?

[Ihelppeoplebymilo]

For me yeah

[Asker]

Why?

[Ihelppeoplebymilo]

Personally I wouldn’t like to have a man that’s been passed around

[Asker]

That's the exact logic behind a man that cares about a woman's body count.

[Anonymous]

No, that has nothing to do with anything.

[Asker]

What red flags should men be looking for when deciding if a woman is worth investing time and energy into for a long term relationship?