So basically, my crush rarely texts me first. She has been doing it a bit more often however, but not a lot still. I first met her in class, and we've talked a bit during those times, but recently I asked for her Instagram and we've been talking for a month and few weeks at this point, and that's where we're at rn. I'm mostly the one initiating the conversation most of the time. But whenever I do message her, the conversation goes great and lasts for a while, usually around an hour or more, we say good night to each other when the conversation lasts until late night and all that. She does seem genuinely interested, and if anything she asks me more questions than I ask her. We have a lot of things in common, and we talk about our interests a lot. So, why does she rarely ever text me first to initiate the conversation? Could it just be that she's already used to me starting it? Maybe she's just being nice and isn't really interested? I dunno, I'm probably overthinking this a lot but I'd like to hear someone's opinion.
Hello, I can relate to the girl you're talking to as I never initiate conversations. Personally, I do this so that I can see whether the guy is interested (clearly you are since you are starting the convos). However, she may just see you as a friend? Imagine viewing the conversation from a third person's pov, would it look like a chat with just two platonic friends? If so, perhaps you could see if there is any interesting events/movies that have come up and ask if she would like to do something. As I've been in this position before, the conversations just started getting dryer and dryer until we stopped talking. So do something!!! (ask her out).
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nah she probably likes you its just scary to text first
Dude, you are supposed to lead. How the date Vibe…the rest of relational aspects. Does she participate positively?
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It might just be her communication style.
Nope we’re in the same boat
I would assume not interested.
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we don't text first
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