Girls, why do you get upset over this?

[Anonymous]

You're on the beach in your string bikini, hundreds of guys and girls around can see you. After a long swim you decide to get something to eat and put on a mini dress over the bikini to go eat. A couple of your guy friends are there to. One of them finds a way to sneak a look up your dress. You catch him and get pissed off and try to hide it so he can't look up there anymore. Why? He and every other guy on the beach already saw everything there is to see under there (I mean, without you getting naked). All he got to see was your thighs and bikini!

[Guy13]

The truth is they want to behave explicitly or sexually but not judged as such. There is neither not internal unconscious or conscious Self congruence. And they have to blame upon those looking, judging, and seeing the Queen has no clothes !!

[TroyDT]

When she's wearing the bikini it's her choice. When she's wearing the dress and he is looking up it he is invading her privacy. The former is by consent, the latter is not.

[Asker]

But, there's no difference at all between the two except that in one, she's wearing a mini dress and in the other, she's not.

[Anonymous]

I mean you can't run up on people and try to put your head between their legs... it's too much.

However if someone walks around with a thong they are cleary asking for attention. I would never do that..

[Asker]

No, you can't. I was thinking maybe he dropped something while they were sitting at the table and he bent over to pick it up and took a look up her dress.

[Opinion Owner]

Thats still not okay. But at the same time she is wearing a thong in public...

I think she got angry because she kinda saw the guy as a friend (friendzoned) and got shocked that he would be intressted in a female in a thong!

[Asker]

Yeah, she IS wearing the same thing she had on before she put the dress on.
I'm thinking it's more of just a guy thing. Even though you've already seen it all, if there's a chance to sneak a peek, you just automatically take it. Like, there were a few times my girlfriend and I were walking around the apartment naked and there'd be a similar situation: we're sitting at a table and I'd drop something and sneak a look at her under the table. She's been naked in front of me all day and she's gonna get upset over me looking at her under the table while she's still naked? Maybe it's just an automatic type reaction for girls.

[Opinion Owner]

I dont think she would be mad cause she is your girlfriend in your own place alone. But if a friend those it in public it can be embarrasing.

[Asker]

No, she was never mad, just, kinda like if I was trying to tickle her and she didn't want me to.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah well she was your girlfriend

[Asker]

Yes but, even if she wasn't and I sneaked a peek up her dress to see the exact same thing I'd been perfectly free to look at all day, she'd still cover up.

[Opinion Owner]

Well there's a clear difference from the situations. Its not okay in public when a friend does it. That can count as sexual assualts..

[Asker]

Why? She just spent all afternoon walking around in her bikini for ANYONE to see the bulk of her body. But, because a friend gets a quick glance at her thighs now that she's wearing a dress 30 seconds later, that's an assault?

[Opinion Owner]

Because its still her body. If a guy walks around naked does it mean I can push a dildo up his butt? No he didn't ask for it lol

[Asker]

And he didn't push one into her pussy or anywhere else. I don't see how one correlates with the other. I'm just asking why a girl will do something that makes no sense.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm just saying just because someone is wearing a thong doesn't mean you can stick your head between her legs and have a peak.. its embarrasing

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO!

[RedStiletto88]

I see. So according to you, a 40 something anonymous poster, we’re just here to be ogled and leered over by you guys whenever you feel like it.


Creepy cretin.

[Asker]

Yeah, like girls NEVER do that to guys!
No, that's YOUR interpretation of what I said!

[RedStiletto88]

That’s exactly what you said, anonymous!!

[Asker]

No, that's what YOU said.

[RedStiletto88]

Omg you’re posting creepy stuff under an anonymous tag!

[Asker]

No, darlin'. YOU'RE posting the creepy stuff!! I'm just asking a question about why girls do this certain thing when it makes no sense at all.

[Anonymous]

I think the key is here is that she knew the guy that took a peek. And just because she's in some skimpy bikini doesn't give the right to act like an perv.

[Asker]

The point is, he already saw everything she's gonna show all day long. Why is it now a big deal to her that he's getting a look at the exact same thing she's been showing to EVERYONE all day?

[JessJJ]

No, it wouldn't bother me.

[In_Trance]

You have too much spare time on your hands

[Asker]

`Cause I asked a question?

[In_Trance]

You're a grown ass man hiding behind and Anon avi posting shit like this online?
Shouldn't you be making money or spending time with your boyfriend?

[Asker]

I'm not much of an ass man, I'm a tit man!
Yeah? So? What's it to you? Are you a GIRL? Do you ALWAYS respond to questions directed towards girls, questions you couldn't POSSIBLY answer? If it bothers you, stop reading and responding to them!!
There's NOTHING wrong with the question, it's PERFECTLY legit!! I decided to go anon to keep from being bothered by assholes like you!
I thought YOU were making money SEEING my boyfriend!