If someone says they are not ok and that it is urgent would you expect them to be in danger?

[BarryLiverstone]

She said it’s urgent but when I responded the ‘urgency’ was her having a dream about me and she then says she was just trying to tease me. This isn’t the first time something has been ‘urgent’. What would you do in this situation?

[NathanDavis]

if they do that once... I will be like "ha.."

if they do it twice... I will be like "hmm..."

if they keep doing it after I've explained to them why that's not a good thing I would have to stop taking them seriously, and kindly suggest them therapy... lol

now, depending on the circumstances, context and details of it... if they've done it the first time to tease and be playful, that might be interesting to go with... lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Agreed. She claims to be in therapy and says she is nearly healed

[NathanDavis]

well, more the reason to have a serious talk with her about it...

maybe she's not ready yet, to actually understand the implications of this... as in, not being capable of it

[Guy13]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/gKWktweAZb0

Send her that for a start 😎

[BarryLiverstone]

I literally did already

[Guy13]

💪💪

[bubblegunnn]

If she said so then i expected her is in danger..
But after learn ur case, it seems like she's lack of ur attention.. and what she meant 'danger', it sounds not danger at all if it just a dream of u two..
She just want u to reply her quickly, thats the point
And after few times she did the same things, soon ull lost ur trust

[VaguelyAsianLisbeth]

Urgency should be saved for real and time sensitive situations. And emergency should be saved for danger. Making a joke or teasing with very serious words is cause enough to be upset.

[BarryLiverstone]

Agreed. What would you do if that person continues to abuse those situations even after explaining it’s not ok?

[Ayesha587]

Stop being so rude Barry

[Ayesha587]

I will understand she needs attention and is excited to tell you what she dreamed of you , I would show her lots of love cuz not everyone remembers you this much , she Is a diamond keep her.

[BarryLiverstone]

Would you agree that someone saying it’s urgent repeatedly is healthy behavior?

[Ayesha587]

She never always say that , did she say this lots of time before too?

[BarryLiverstone]

She has previous claimed it was urgent to talk to me. To me it seems like she craves attention and even would like to be punished for lying.

[Ayesha587]

Ok you should leave her then she is not worth spenting time with , she may trouble you a lot , kick her out , she is a bitch

[Ayesha587]

Go update your questions and write this too "She has previous claimed it was urgent to talk to me. To me it seems like she craves attention and even would like to be punished for lying." , let's see how many replies changes

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you

[Emiliamazing]

Danger, truly upset about a situation, certainly not a dream or teasing.

[Emiliamazing]

Might be time to have a talk about time management and why calling “wolf” too many times can be eight negative impact on a relationship.

[Caramelpie]

Messing with you.

but calling or texting someone help me means it’s something serious and using it for jokes or anything is bad.

[Mimi_loves_her]

I would ask them what’s so urgent then depending on what the day I would be concerned about them

[Brandi555]

No. They may need help that needs to be now.

[Jamie05rhs]

Dude, that's a hint. She wants you.

[cherrywave]

Message me dm

[BarryLiverstone]

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