I don't really know what to really say... earlier this year, I was sexually assaulted. The cop that had my case was dismissive and closed my case without my knowledge. Out of the sheer emotional and mental damage and trauma, I gave up because I couldn't take another disappointment in this situation and was contemplating suicide. I met this other woman who claims to be a victim of the very same guy... She fights her battles differently from me and that's fine, because we are two different women. Through our tragedies, we developed a connection... a strange connection. We'd talk on the phone and it would seem like she was happy about what happened to me... a lot of times, she would call me to talk about herself and her multiple lawsuits against multiple people and then basically drag my spirit down, further, with all of her life troubles. One day, she calls me a recaps my whole experience and basically says that she doesn't believe me because nothing ever happened to this asshole. You guys, I've done all that I could and still, nothing. As I'm listening to her, I'm falling deeper and deeper into depression and rage. With one phone call, she knocked back my progress about 5 steps. While I'm trying to move on, she's developed an obsession (likely, a trauma bond) for this guy. She still talks to him and everything. Meanwhile, she keeps holding me accountable for her being bullied by other people, when we barely knew each other and calls the attack that happened to me, "Karma". I don't even know what to do with that. I have since kicked her out of my life and I'm starting to heal again, but what is this sporadic and irrational behavior? I've been sheltered for most of my life, so I'm new to this kind of abuse... please help. I just need some answers and advice on this.
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