Truth is, most women don't realize that the reason men are reluctant to express emotion is because seldom are our emotions received well by society. Most women want a man to be open with his emotions, but in most cases they can't handle it, and end up responding in ways that reinforces why its better to keep them to ourselves. Women love to blame men for our lack of emotional openness, and while it's important for a man to have healthy outlets for his emotions, I dont fault men for choosing the peace that comes from keeping your emotions to yourself. Also, in this day and age men are blamed for everything, so don't let it get to you.
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It's complicated. It's true that society disingenuously tells men they should be more emotional or that they lack emotional intelligence because they don't show their emotions, but then penalizes them when they are emotional. Most (?) women who love a man would not judge him for showing his emotions to some degree with her, but I think it does make some women uncomfortable. But if a man shows emotions in some ways early in a relationship, I do think they often get judged for it. And if men showed emotions publicly the way women can, they would be looked down upon by many people, both women and other men. I'm not saying any of that is right, but I do believe it's the reality men face.
I hate saying this but I think it's unfair in a way for people to encourage men to be more emotional because it sets them up for failure.
There’s women that don’t do this but I get where you are coming from. I had to call out my friend the other day for basically saying that her boyfriend should get over the fact that he feels overwhelmed about having a first child coming in 2 months. I had to tell her like why is it an issue for him to be overwhelmed? It’s a normal feeling especially never having a child before
You basically answered your own question, minus the simp part. Women like strong men. To them, being emotional implies weakness. Even though having a flaw doesn't negate your strengths. It's misandry.
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I look the examples include telling boys to “man up” when they feel upset or justifying abusive and inappropriate behavior with the phrase “boys will be boys.” Toxic masculinity can be defined as “the need to aggressively compete and dominate others and encompasses the most problematic proclivities in men.
personally, I wouldn’t condemn a man for expressing himself I think, growing up we were always taught as women we had emotions and we were taught how to understand them and why. Growing up I think my father was more nurturing than my mother was sometimes.
Men are just a mystery
Women do not tell men to be emotional and cry. Feminist women who have hair under their arms do. Don't get it twisted young man. Go cry to your therapist not me.
Maybe some do but I am quite sure the majority of women dont. Its mainly a thing men seem to tell other men.
Don't listen to women. Problem solved.
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