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Can't say I've ever had that problem [forever unattractive], but if a guy approaches me while I'm out walking, reading a book, or out eating alone?
Yeah, not going to lie, that would probably irk me. If I'm out alone, there's a reason for that: I want my "me time" to do what I want without being bothered. It irks me when I'm, for example, going for a walk, and someone wants to strike a conversation with me. It slows me down, and my walks are when I listen to music or podcasts to unwind.
I wouldn't mind if he said "hi" or waved in passing, or as he saw me getting ready to leave, THEN approach me! That's the best method.
Best thing to do is read her mood. Like I said, wave or say hello and see how she reacts-
If she smiles and seems like her body language wants to be approached? Go for it. Otherwise leave her alone.
Depends on so many things for me personally
Like my mood that day... if I have a awful or stressful day I will be annoyed
Or the person, if it's some stupid alpha/macho shit he is saying I will be annoyed no matter my mood, but a normal conversation is all good
... overall If I'm not interested in talking at all, I personally will say it from the get-go, right after his hi i will interrupt him, apologize and explain that I don't wanna talk
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It all depends, it's not all or nothing, all women are going to be bothered or no woman is going to be bothered, or even a single woman might be bothered on one day and pleased on a different day.
For the most part though, no one (man or woman) really wants to be alone, at least not in a deeper way. To be human is to crave human connection, those who truly don't are not well (sociopaths, or with a condition like generalized anxiety disorder). While some people might want to be left alone to drink their tea and read their book, people who truly desire that rarely go out into a public shop to do their tea-drinking/book reading. If you take yourself out into public, it's not because privacy is your priority.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/3TfKSS8T5WMI'm a guy. I've had this happen from both men and women. Sometimes it's flirting or outright hitting on. @NathanDavis example of the salt is one thing. But otherwise, if I'm alone, I want to be alone. And so I give the same courtesy to women (and men) when I'm out. I'm polite about it, but, yeah, it can be a bother.
This is an unpopular opinion, probably, but it doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things whether she'd be annoyed or not. I quote a woman who answered another question I was perusing and she said "don’t hesitate or wait. If you want something, go and get it."
That's really all there is to it. If you don't go for what you want because of some irrational fear of the outcome, then you're not going to get it. She ain't gonna come to you.
I think they do... that shit bugs the fuck out of me. Not sure if many females think like I do though. Now if she's dressed like a hooker doing bimbo hooker things... she's sending the message to me she want's me to approach her like I need a hooker.
u that is personal and all about circumstances...
I've approached a girl's a table at this dining place... and she pretty much told me off instantly, lmfao
and I just wanted to borrow the salt...
Not if you are cute, gentleman, request/ask if you are interrupting-she is free to talk a bit, and take the wishy-washy response as “I am assuming this is a yes, I am your name with extending hand.
“I’ve got a man here”, she’s thinking.
Just because I like something, it does not mean it’s mine to pursue. Some and most of guys don’t get that. So if a woman is grocery shopping alone, eating or drinking coffee alone, walking or driving alone - it’s an invitation? if a guy isn’t sure, then he needs therapy
I can't really answer either way bc it can be annoying or not, however it does happen and I try to take it positively bc that is better than being frequently annoyed.
only if the man doing the approaching is unattractive. if he's attractive, they won't get bothered.
I wouldn’t mind if a guy came up and said, what are you reading? But yeah just saying a joke to a trapped audience? 👎🏾
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How is that an invitation. What a freaken weirdo!
If it’s an attractive guy, I have no problem with it at all , as long as it’s not at something like a funeral or something 😂 just saying read the room first to see if it’s an okay time.
No, they love the attention. Everybody loves the attention.
I would feel annoyed but not too much
I don't know till I ask.
It really depends how attracted she is to you.
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