Do you wish Valentines day were more like it is in Japan, in the rest of the world?

[Anonymous]

Make it about girls giving chocolate to the guy she likes

[21Cowboy21]

What guy can refuse a good piece of chocolate?

Personally that seems more equal in Japan if that is how it works, but I like to spoil a girlfriend on V-Day to show her appreciation for being a great friend throughout the year. That is where I derive happiness from on that day - as I find girls get a lot more excited for V-Day than guys - I have no problem with girls being able to have that exciting day of happiness to look forward to each year if I can make that happen for her.

I am single currently unfortunately as my last ex was really abusive two years ago to me. I broke up with her after the 3rd time it happened. Never laid a finger on her ever.

[Guy13]

No as I wish Hallmark had never created the money grabbing bogus day.

[kylee2437]

Nope , I wish people would make Valentine’s Day in more of a holiday to celebrate love for themselves and just having a partner is considered a bonus.

[KittyKat90210]

I don't think it has to be about either person giving something to the other. Just enjoy the day together.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I agree, I just like the idea of it being a dead give away she likes me.

[OfMiceandMen]

I'm not really into chocolates, can we go with a shooter or something?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes.

I like chocolate, honesty, and bold women who know what they want and aren't too scared to admit it.

[QuietRunner]

then a month later, the chocolate company want guys to give chocolate to the girls

[purplepoppy]

You mean instead of blow jobs?

[Asker]

Instead of expecting men to do anything except maybe thanking them.
In Japan, girls give guys they like chocolate. If the man likes the girl, he returns the favor on White day. Not that White day is necessary, girls giving chocolate is enough.

[WhitneySnow]

I think that’s Sweetest Day

[Likes2drive]

Some women do that