I disagree. My first boyfriend was an ahole but the majority after him were not. And yes i’ve had my fair shair of aholes. I trust each person easily and by default until i’m given a reason not to. I didn't treat anyone badly but yes i can be bossy however most of my men liked that. Im not afraid of heartbreak because i easily move on. Im just annoyed by wasting my time. My guard is never really up so there's nothing to let down. Plenty of dudes have treated me nice. The assholes are usually the ones who pretended to be nice. I dont just intentionally go for aholes.
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I disagree. My ex was the nicest guy in the world. He was so sweet and gentle with me. For two years I thought that was a fairytale and was the luckiest girl in the world. In the end acted like an asshole though.
No. I think her ex was always an asshole and that's what attracted her to him in the first place. Another thing is that some chicks love the drama of being with an asshole, even when domestic abuse is involved. Often when a woman is describing her ex as an asshole or abusive guy she may be gaslighting you and others about him because she cheated on him or he dumped her and really she was the asshole or abuser and he's actually a pretty decent guy. Some women just love a bastard.
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I treated him so good and made him feel so loved that he couldn't get enough of me and couldn't forget about me even after we stopped talking for a long time and came back. So, that should answer your question. Sometimes things don't work out not because you have an issue (bad experiences) or your partner have issues, but because the timing was just not right and there were too many things going on in life.
that's why it's better to find a girl who never had an ex-boyfriend. won't have to worry about any of her past emotional baggage
My ex girlfriend dumped me due to this. She didn't know how to deal with a guy who didn't abuse her.
I agree, and this is so many women always end up with abusive boyfriends. For some reason, they think its all they deserve.
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