If he was very wealthy, average looking, but provided jewelry, clothes, Range Rover, treated you very well, traveling, was faithful to you; would you give up ALL of your social media, ALL, of your simps, all of your ex's, and let him go through your phone whenever he asks, and be completely monogamous (no other guy blow jobs/hand jobs, etc) and every other sketchy thing you do. Would you ladies really be able to do this?
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As I suspected women resist the phone inspection, which tells me "no", women are not able to not cheat or otherwise seek other attention.
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Most women would but some women are born hoes and will be hoes the whole of their days on this earth.
I don't think most could or would. Even with a loving man, lots of money, they still seek attention and validation from the whole world. I think this is really a deep pathology amongst women these days.
That’s not true in all cases. I take offence to that statement. Anyway, why should a man have the right to go through a woman’s phone and invade her privacy. It’s creepy and offensive if he can’t and treats her like she’s his property. It’s also a red flag for an abuser.
*Can’t respect her as his equal and to be loyal to only shag him and just be his best friend and lover.
@BrightBubblyKat That's the condition. Most women use their phone to cheat, send inappropriate pics, keep contact with ex's and random "guy friends", etc. This phone inspection is critical. If you fight this the deal is off.
What deal? I didn’t sign up for anything and anyone who doesn’t trust me isn’t worthy of my love. I suggest therapy. by the way I’m bisexual, so I guess you should check my female friends as well. Lol.
If you encounter the right one and lead in an Agape way then all will end well.
Agape? I don’t understand? You mean like James Bond? A bit of traditional masculinity is a turn on, especially in kissing and in sex, but when a guy wants to control you, no good can come from that.
Oh sorry I misread your message. I thought you said most women are hoes. You’re right. Some are, some aren’t.
@BrightBubblyKat Yeah, some are and some are not JUST like guys. And some just have a moment here and there out of character sort of thing. People are difficult
@BrightBubblyKat Your phone is the conduit for cheating, you know it, I know it. No deal.
Apparently it's too much to ask for a woman to be faithful.
@BrightBubblyKat It's not "controlling" if he abides by the same standard.
I don’t want to check my partner’s phone. Can’t you just accept that love is a gamble? It’s not really love, more obsession if you can’t believe in each other. Without proof. You fail my test too. Not that I was testing you, asker.
I never asked you for any kind of deal, whoever you are. I’ve not cheated on anyone at all or so much as kissed a man in 4 years. Having someone not trust me would drive me to want to cheat though. Whereas if you love each other, you trust and both stay faithful.
Yeah, you’re right there. Mine was probably a moment out of character. I apologise. I misread your post when I was tired and stressed out.
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@BrightBubblyKat Gamble yes, but "guy friends" social media, and all of the other crap multiply the odds of cheating by a factor of 10.
Rubbish. That’s like me saying all my dating experiences make a woman more desperate for a man. Date rape, stalking and guys who can’t accept that no means no has almost entirely turned me off dating. I really am a one man woman and if I don’t find him, I’m not dating anyone anymore. Many women think this way. It’s not just guys who get used or hurt.
Do you know how guy friends become guy friends? The thing is they all try to seduce you and the woman friendzones them (ninety nine percent of the time); as the thought of intimacy with him icks her out forever. Don’t worry about friendzoned guys. They never make it out of there once they’re officially told they’re only a mate.
@BrightBubblyKat The answer is still "no". A high value man should not, and doesn't have to, tolerate this behavior from a woman.
What behaviour? Having her own friends and life? I agree that you should stay faithful to each other but I’m not insulting someone I love by not trusting them enough not to invade their privacy and I’m not having them invade mine. Who are you, anyway? Do we know each other?
Just by the way you’re describing yourself and saying the deal is off.. if you’re the guy I used to love, this isn’t the way to impress me or judge my character.
Yes, minus the going through my phone. They should trust me. I’d only do it for love though.
No, no. Going through your phone is essential. Trust but verify. No sending pics to other men, no insta postels, no Snapchat, not Facebook, no only fans, no social media and no "guy friends"
Could you do it?
I already do everything else. I can’t dump all my male friends. They’re like my brothers. Next you’d be asking me to abandon my female friends and my family.
@brightbubblykat. Nope, you fail.
You fail too. In my test.
You know what I’d do if I were you? Entirely your choice, but get some counselling about trust issues and fear of intimacy, then date a woman and see how she treats others and whether she gives you any reason not to trust her. If she always invites you into her world, tells you if a male friend hits on her and chooses you over him, then she loves you. If she cheats, checking her phone isn’t going to keep her faithful. If she’s faithful, nothing you do aside from ignoring her or cheating on her will let her cheat on you.
I'm sorry, but if you continually give someone the opportunity to cheat, eventually they will cheat.