First, she mentions See This through and Puscifer. And wanting to go to the latter's concert, because she knows the band members. I tell her that's pretty cool, because I know Nick from See This through.
She then tells me she needs to go to the concert alone, for some "fulfillment" reason. I'm confused, because I never said anything about wanting to go with her to the concert. Only that I find it interesting that she knows the band members.
Later, she hears that Slim Puppy is planning an event, and she's all gaga, but tells some other friend of hers that she'd love it if that friend went with her. The friend declines. She never even bothers to mention anything to me about it.
So apparently, it's okay for her to pester the one gal about accompanying her to one concert, but she has to shut me down over another concert that I never even asked if I wanted to accompany her on or not.
I'm thinking another guy hurt her in the past, and she's not told me the whole story.
On the other hand, she opened up about how she sobered up after a drug problem in 2018.
So she trusts me with knowing she had past drug trauma, yet still projects onto me her past relationship baggage?
Ladies, does any of this make sense to you? I detect this puzzle has a lot of missing pieces.
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She needs a wingman to go to the shows so she can pick-up a band member. You are not a wingman nor are you consider a boyfriend option. Anyone that needs to go hang out with a band for "personal fulfillment" wants to get F-ed by one of the band members. Having you around would crush that possibility.
So you believe her Jesus talk is a front, and she's just a groupie? I hope you're wrong. But my other interest turned out to be a closet bisexual druggie, who is way too easily manipulated by bad chicks, and is sometimes late for work of her own doing.
Good women are hard to find. I can get why some won't give me a chance. I've seen enough BS to have a chip on my shoulder the size of Antarctica.
you don't go to a concert without a guy/boyfriend. that's red flag one. i'd be done with her
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