What is worse, an incel or a simp? What have you encountered more on here?

[Slingblade1126]

I personally feel a simp, while annoying and pathetic, is rarely evil. Although, they can become vulgar at times. An incel, on the other hand, usually becomes evil toward women. I have a dear friend on here, that in the course of 2, 3 weeks, went from being a raging simp, calling women, "mommy" and "my queen", and begging them for pictures, to calling them liars, after HE asked a question and they were nice enough to answer. Girls DO ask guys out, it's happened to me! But because he hasn't had success with the ladies, for obvious reasons, everyone is a liar! I think a lot of it has to do with him being catfished one to many times. I'm sure he spent a fair amount of money for pics of some dudes 60yr old mom getting undressed. I wouldn't care but he attacked my best friend on here! It was totally uncalled for. Thankfully, he is getting help. He apparently is seeing a therapist of some kind and I give him props for that. We all need some help at times that family and friends just can't give us. At times, they are actually the root cause of the problem. So, what is worse, a simp or an incel? What have you seen more of?

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Doddamn! Your "therapist" did take the day off! Look, I don't wanna attack you! I love you. That's why I support you getting the help you so desperately need. Don't be ashamed. Most people on here would probably understand. If you want my number, just ask. Please. Help is just a phone call away!

[Wallythewalrus]

Like the one woman said, incels actually rape and kill people. You should know that! You're a prosecutor... lol I can't believe how he turned on me. It started off as a nice conversation but then he brought your name into it and went fucking insane! He has issues but I am glad he seems to be getting the help he needs.

[Slingblade1126]

Lol... we don't convict "incels", we convict for the crime. Sure, it could be a hate crime toward women but incel isn't a legal term. You should know that! You're a defense attorney. I want you to layoff him.

[ChefPapiChulo]

okay oldcel

[Agape93]

Incels. Incels have caused us harm, they've killed people, they've raped people and most support those things being done to us.

[Slingblade1126]

Excellent point! I just thought about it in a sense of this app but you are 100% right! In the "real" world some do cause physical harm. Fortunately, this one seems harmless and means well. I hope!

[LazerBean]

I could not agree with you more, incels are definitely far worse than simps.

[Slingblade1126]

Yes. As the other lady said, that I never thought of, is they actually commit violent crimes. I was only thinking of the ones on here but I'm sure they can also.

[Pohjolan]

You do realise that a pretty large percentage of simps are incels?
They wouldn't be simping if they were having sex.

[Oldschool1981]

I'm a lifelong incel and am absolutely nothing like the stereotypes. I don't hate women, I just have incredibly low self esteem and am totally awkward around them. I have zero idea of how to talk to women in a social setting. I don't blame women for my problems. It isn't their fault I have low self image and drank away my youth when my peers were dating and getting married. Furthermore, I'd never harm women or lash out against society - that's just disgusting.

The hardest part about being an incel is the constant ridicule I receive for having a problem that seems impossible for me to fix. It's like, bruh, you gotta hate on me because I never get a date? Sorry that my personal problems piss you off so much. Geez.

[normalice]

Incels. They are groomed to be digital soldiers and stooges for the rise of far right Christian nationalism, whereas the only real problem with simps is that they are at a huge risk for being targeted by incel groomers.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Simps have no self esteem, control or respect they are junkies who will jump through hoops for a minuscule fix of validation

incels are just having a hard time I feel like people should cut them some slack no need to kick a man who is down it’s much better to just help them get back up with a few words of encouragement and wisdom

[Nikki1989]

Incels have the potential to be dangerous. Simps are mostly harmless.

[LiamJHayden]

SIMPs are the guys who buy drinks for girls before I swoop in and take the girls home.

InCels are the breeding ground for mass shooters.

InCels are worse.

[Pohjolan]

Really on average incels are not as bad as people make them out to be.

[DarkLegacy]

I thought most incels were simps.