Does she like me or my attention?

[Anonymous]

So a few weeks ago this girl responded to my story and we started snapping. We know each other from work and I had a slight crush on her, we had each other on snapchat for a while but never really snapped. We sent a lot of different snaps over the past few weeks, sometimes conversations the other moment just pictures. She complimented me and when we had a conversation about music she asked for my playlist. She also sent snaps that are a little revealing? We usually see each other at work and often have conversations, she always laughs and we playfully tease each other often. Her body language is very open towards me and she stands very close to me (sometimes almost against me). Even when I just tell her something (not asking a question) she has a full response to it. I know she snaps quite a lot of people and has a boyfriend. Their relationship isn’t the greatest and when she describes her type it’s totally not him. We hold eye contact quite long. There is also the thing when I make a comment and she just keeps on adding to it like she doesn’t want it to end to a point where it gets a little awkward? I know some of the people she snaps and with me it’s different than with them. When she is with her boyfriend she usually doesn’t respond other than when she is alone. She always asks how my day went and stuff too. She was snapping some guy I was with and saw we were in a similar room and asked if I were with him? Some of my friends tell me she probably likes the attention, I have thought of this too. But on the other hand it’s a little different with me than with other people she snaps.
Oh, she also saves some of my snaps in chat and sends a half heart symbol with her hand obviously expecting me to send the other half back?

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Also, she sends pictures with her friends/family and makes pictures with me and shares ‘older’ pictures where we are in.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to determine whether she likes you or just your attention without more information or direct communication from her. However, it's important to consider the context of her behavior and to approach the situation with empathy and respect.

It's possible that she may be interested in you romantically, but it's also possible that she enjoys your friendship and attention without any romantic feelings. It's important to respect her current relationship and to communicate openly and honestly with her about your own feelings and intentions.

If you're interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with her, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and to be respectful of her own boundaries and feelings. Remember that everyone has the right to their own feelings and boundaries, and that it's important to prioritize empathy and respect in any interaction or relationship.

[Asker]

Thank you

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Stop giving her attention and see how she reacts

[Asker]

I do it sometimes and her reaction is very different. At work if I do this she would eventually find her way towards me. If I do this over snapchat, she would one time match this and the one time open my snap instantly.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I guess I'd say if she absorbs all the attention without giving any back, she might not like you as much she pretends to

[Asker]

I guess she gives back? We actually have conversations, it’s not that she is just responding or talking back. She has complimented me too. But at the end of the day only she knows I guess

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Yeah that's true. As long as you feel appreciated, I guess you have nothing to worry about

[Asker]

Thank you for your time.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Absolutely

[Guy13]

We called these types Attention hoes.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like she likes the attention

[Iron_Man]

Too young for dating yet

[boobliker]

just ask her