Basically we were super cool when we first met in 2021, I just felt like I could be myself with her & she understood me in a way I wished a guy would understood me as a partner. I thought she was always flirting, but I wasn’t reciprocating. I guess one day I realize maybe I do like her. People at work kept pushing me to try flirting with her. I was slowly doing it.. then we finally exchange numbers & everything changed -she seemed different. I tried to hang with her but she said cuz Covid we should used discord to watch something together. Then, she backed out last min saying she actually felt uncomfortable because she felt like some comments I said was flirty. I was shocked, upset, confuse, & hurt.. I felt so misled. I didn’t wanna get into potential trouble at work incase of harassment cases because those things could happen. So I turned it back to her that I thought she was the one flirting and I just wanted to be friends. But I guess we could just be co-workers. She didn’t denied it or anything except that we can go forward as co-workers.
I saw her monthsss later at a goodbye coworker party, before she left, she told me it was really nice to see me and asked how I’m doing.. but I wasn’t ready to forget what happened. I kept it short and then other people was trying to talked to her.