Why do women become more attracted and chase you when they see you with other women?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I think it's a combination of two things, one being competition. It's no secret we tend to be very competitive with each other when it comes to men. I think men are this way too, to some extent, but not as much as women.

I don't know what to call the other reason, but it's kind of like you're shopping for something and you realize the thing you want is out of stock because it's super popular and everyone else has bought up all the stock, which makes you think it must be really good because other people want it too. I hope that makes sense.

[Apple1996]

This is not true. Women are turned off by the thought of their man even being with another women in the past

[WhiteBoyChill]

He was asking the question more in the sense of say a guy who’s at the beach with a bunch of women, vs the loner guy nobody’s talking to.

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill I'd rather get with the loner. Probably has a better personality

[WhiteBoyChill]

Exactly right. But unfortunately, most women are impressed more by a guy’s status than personality.

[Kingofkings1992]

It is true apple 🍎

[lightbulb27]

Social proof... once you are validated by other females... you are "safe". Females are all about security, and it's better to steal one that is proven that try to prove one yourself.

this is related to confidence... some females have it, most don't.

If you think of most people and in genreal, females, as a pack of Gazelle's on the prarie... you've got a good mental model of behavior.

[BlackJeep]

I've got a couple former coworkers that are female and whenever I'm back in town we go out. I've had their friends DM me and gotten phone numbers when we're out. I don't think you can beat a couple female wingmen (wingpeople?) for a night on the town

[ManOnFire]

Women tend to have a twisted attraction to men who are already with another woman because they think it means he is successful at having a relationship, attracting women, or is a good lover, which they think is hot. And many a woman has tried to chase or lure these taken men. But the really odd part is that when women are in a relationship they will feel like men who still want them but know she's taken are immoral, desperate dirt bags.

[Jamie05rhs]

Right. And they're ALL dirtbags. Females need to stop the hypocrisy.

[ManOnFire]

@Jamie05rhs They are too often tied up in their belief that they are morally superior just because they’re women.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

They don't. That's another internet lie.

Women are way too egotistical to chase a man who doesn't think she's the greatest thing since sliced bread

[WanderingLoveWizard]

If you want proof, ask a man what he loves about his girl, then ask a woman the same thing.
The man will list traits about her, but the woman will list things he does that make her feel good about herself.
It's all about them. Period.

[TooHot2Care]

LMFAO.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@TooHot2Care Funny enough, a woman liked this comment lol

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@TooHot2Care an honest woman...

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@TooHot2Care but you keep believeimg the lies bud. Ain't no women chasing you anyway

[TooHot2Care]

Ha.,

[EmyyWolf]

NO 😑😑😑

I BECOME TURNED OFF.

IM GONNA THINK YOU DONT EVEN LIKE ME ANYMORE. I RATHER BACK DOWN AND LET YOU BE. BE HAPPY WITH YOUR HOES 🖕

[Jamie05rhs]

Because #deezhoesaintloyal.
They don't understand the concept of loyalty. And since that's not something they believe in and something they value, they won't respect it in someone else's relationship, either.

[Fireguy17]

because then she knows that you are desirable and now wants you as well.
Just like some women do with married men, they figure he is a good catch because he is married.

[rachel776]

we want what we can't have there's no explanation for it. it's like you guys like boobs but you can't explain why

[TooHot2Care]

I can explain why. Sucking boobs is fun. Science. Now shoo.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah but almost every girl has boobs so we can have what we want.

[KrakenAttackin]

Easy. Women want men who are desired by other women. If other women want you it confers status on you, which is what women want in a man.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Some people say it's pre-selection, which means if a woman approves to be with you then there's something desirable about you, which in most cases is BS.

[Asker]

I don’t get it man because it always seems to work out if I approach a girl and start flirting with her and her friend and let them pick

[Christoff92]

Their more about you that meet the eye. One women sees you as a gentleman which gets every other women's attention depending if they find you attractive 😀

[In_Trance]

Because you're not desperate and they can see the real you. Desperation is the #1 most overlooked factor by single people, and this is why people start getting hit on when in relationships

[Chthou95]

Because women are curious when they see a man that multiple women want and become attracted to that and want to par take in that putting themselves in a competition with other women for his attention. Female nature my friend

[Anonymous]

I don't know but it's a common phenomenon.

I think it appeals to a woman's ego when she can take a man from another woman.

[FunkyMonkee]

I can only guess that it's because you've become something they can't have.

[LiamJHayden]

Those who do so probably recognize that the guy is not desperate which makes him different from what they are accustomed to.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Because women know that a woman won't be with a man for no reason

[GHIGGS]

It's called "Sexual Rivalry" Women are inately competitve with other women.

[Kingofkings1992]

Because women are fake and less authentic than men are.

[CindyRuns]

Simple - Competition !!!

[Fuentes]

Those are woman u just don't take srs

[marish01]

Not me