I'm a black woman, I am ugly. This is not a troll post, not all of the times but most of the times people look at my face in disgust. I have been called ugly far more than I've been called pretty, I am aware. I am also dark I'm 5'5 and 139 lbs this changes nothing, my boyfriend is white. He thinks I am the most beautiful thing he tells me I am but I don't believe him because I am not. Although I do love him I may also have my own personal agenda by being with him that I've also expressed. I want better looking offspring, especially if she is a female. I DO NOT want a daughter that looks like me at all because I cannot carry the pain and hurt she will experience being ugly along with my own ugly pain. I am fine with boys usually ugly women make nice looking boys. I believe that his features will wash out mines, I want my children to be treated fairly and not like how I have for being ugly. Am I Self hating or being logical?
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I'm black myself. I'm dark skinned tall and thin and still some people treat me like trash. I'm married to a white guy and have two beautiful mixed daughters. Literally everywhere we go people say how cute our girls are. I'm so glad they don't have to be treated like trash in society like me. I work my but off by staying in shape getting my hair done getting cosmetic fillers and surgery and still it's not enough for this world. You're making the best decision. I love myself and think I'm beautiful but society as a whole do not agree.
Thank you!!! Someone who understands
It’s not you, it’s just some feeling you have inside yourself, look isn’t everything to make a person beautiful or perfect, they’re many things to be considered in beauty, the beauty of the heart, the beauty of personality or sense of humor and much more. Don’t underestimate yourself, you could be beautiful for many people but you don’t know.
Thank you for being kind it may be a bit of both
Trust me, look isn’t everything in person to be considered beautiful or cute, I could look ugly in appearance but my heart is beautiful in treating people and loving them (as an example). You can follow me and be friends if you loke
You’re welcome
Neither, i think you are being dumb. Im sorry but i dont see this as that big of a deal, nor i think your daughter will be ugly just because you are (im not saying it is impossible thought)
How people perceive you is how they treat you. I am ugly they treat me ugly.
Not everyone, i mean do you treat ugly people bad? Besides that's usually the case when people are disrespectful, and they are disrespectful with most people, not just ugly people. I dont agree with you on that
I treat people who are kind to me kindly
That's what im saying, i dont think it has that much to do with looks, im sorry that was your experience, but i still dont think that's the case
So.. what could it be?
What do you mean?
You said it doesn't have to do with looks so what is it?
Oh i dont know, i can't know why is that your case. Maybe you just happen to know a lot of disrespectful people, maybe you dont engage well with people, there may be a lot of things, but i know of ugly people who are very loved by most people, and good looking people who are assholes and most of people hate them.