Do you like girls that are "one of the guys"?

[_Maya_]

One of the guys...

You know the type I am talking about. They can comfortably hang with the guys like they are one.

For the girls, are you one of the guys?

[Rab1901]

There is something very valuable about a girl who has similar interests as me, but the way you describe it as "one of the guys" is not how I like her to be. I don't want her to be so comfortable hanging out with the guys. If they are my closest friends and family, then I would actually love it because I have absolute trust in the people that I'm closest with. However, I don't trust all these other guys. It's not that I don't trust guys at all. After all, I am one, and I think there are plenty of guys who have good character, but in a group of guys that I do not know, I will wonder if there is a possibility of danger. If my girl does not realize this, then she is not aware of the world around her, and this is a huge problem for me. I want what's best for her, and I feel the same with the other women I love like my mother and my 3 sisters.

[NathanDavis]

my first girlfriend was somewhat like that, so yes...

she was more of "one of the guys" than I was, lol... as in, she would often hang out more with groups of guys than I would but those were high-school years, then we both grew up more into mixed groups of friends

[Anemone978]

Yes I used to be a real tomboy and had lots of guy friends.. but typically guys are not attracted to you if you are one of them, since they tell you about all the girls they actually like lol I got with my husband because he was more manly than me and knew how to put me in my place and let me show my girly side..

[marrk]

I don’t look it, but I’m definitely a tom boy. I’m probably rougher than a lot of my guy friends tbh

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. I prefer it honestly. Whether she’s a friend or a romantic interest. If she can hang out and do things I like to do we have more in common and can have more fun together.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yes indeed. Like others said, more we can do together, but I do want her to still be comfortable in a nice dress, since I like to buy my S. O. clothes

[DarkWinterNights]

Every “one of the guys” that has pushed to be included with my core friends group has always ended up trying to get with someone, so it never lasts very long and is a lot of drama so I don’t have the highest opinion on them.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yeah we all know one of them... they pretend to be lesbian only to end up having sex with some guy that has the most drugs she likes.

From my experience, these "social butterflies" are good for a hot moment, but not someone I'd want around for the long term. I prefer women that basically hates people in general like I do.

[MikeTheBartender]

As a friend or lover? As a friend yes, as a lover generally no, I like women more feminine and my friends are very masculine, guns, fixing cars, fighting, etc

[Mansearching]

One of my (use to be) best friends was like that. To much to get into here... lol

[_Maya_]

Lol I will trust you on that.

[Mansearching]

No as bad as you think.

[nastyb]

ok so from my experience, there is no way a gilr can just be "one of the guys" unless she gives off a lot of masculine energy. Its not a role that any girl can just take on. Likely she needs to have a lot more in common with men than women. Most likely a tomboy at heart.

secondly, guys prefer girly girls over tomboys. Guys prefer femininity over masculinity. If you want guys to see you as truly "one of the guys" , dating you would never even cross his mind.

[serious]

Yes of course. As long as her personality is very good this is not a problem at all.

[Anonymous]

I am like that but I only have 2 male friends and they are both kinda gay and one is asexual but is attracted to masculine people overall. So I dont see how thats a threat lol

[Pinay_ako]

Yes 🙌. I can hang with my guy friends. But the problem is 😂 … There’s at least always one guy who will develop romantic feelings towards me and it makes it awkward while hanging out with the gang. It happened many times.

[stratford]

🤚that'll be me 😂
I normally can't help it - when someone is a friend you are open, chatty and without the subtones of sexual attraction, and then gradually it changes when you realize what a great person they are and start feeling attracted...

[Pinay_ako]

@stratford yea people get attractive as you get to know them especially if they’re good people

[tomaess]

In Filipino culture it’s common to have opposite gendered friends right?

[stratford]

I agree - they're the ones you want to spend the rest of your life with. What could be better than spending the rest of your life with one of your best mates who is also the love of your life and you get to have fun naughty time with :-)

[Pinay_ako]

@stratford amen 🙏

[Pinay_ako]

@tomaess as far as I know yes

[Sparkie460]

I like women that can be " one of the guys ". I also like it if she can clean up really nicely too. I'm not talking about doing dishes or cleaning the house.

[ProbablyClueless]

Nope; been there, done that. I avoid women like that now.

[Anonymous]

When i try to be close to a guy friend and be nice to them they tend to assume its something else, so i kinda gave up on being close friends with guys. Im not that attractive even i think guys are just desperate. I see attractive women being friends with guys and she probably knows they wanna fuck her but i can't be in that kind of place.

[Opinion Owner]

Worst case was me being friendly to one of my boyfriend’s best friends and he ended up hitting on me which was disgusting. Told my boyfriend of course so now they aren't friends. Which is sad for the fact theyve been friends for a decade, but no one deserves to be betrayed like that.

[Yellovv]

Yes I like that kind of female friends, I like when she play football, chess, blackgammon with us also do different activity with us, that's really fun, also when she swearing sometimes ☺️☺️

[AydenHazor]

I like girls that are one of the guys, but I can also be the guy who's one of the girls

[Anonymous]

The woman has to be a woman. Women who burp, say dude and bruh is disgusting to me. They have behave like woman in order for me to treat them like one.

Of course thirsty guys who can't get anything will lower their standards for anyone, but they don't get women so their opinion doesn't matter.

[Yannishka]

I don't know actually, my friends are fifty percent guys, fifty percent girls. But I do hang out with the guys more.

[SnowedIn]

Absolutely! More specifically, a girl who is comfortable hanging out with a bunch of guys.

[SnowedIn]

She doesn't have to act like a guy just be comfortable with then

[RavVid]

I can comfortably hang out with a girl that is one of the guys. As for like do you mean romantically like?

Probably not for me. I like girls to be femme.

[Alex-Snow]

Sure, but I also like a girl to just be herself. I don't care if she is one of the guys or one of the girls. As long as she is comfortable with how she acts or what not and has fun is what is important