Girls, Girl doesn't want to call and says "call someone else💀"?

[Ousaf1]

When I was studying at school, this girl came and sat next to me. Then she asked me to help her with something on her laptop so I did but in the mean time she was very talkative and asked for my name etc... so we had a nice convo with smiles, a lot of eye contact and i broke the physical contact with a fist bump that was fitting in the convo. She gave me her insta then couple hours later she tells me that she is leaving and gave me a fistbump. After that we texted on instagram. The next day when I saw her, she broke out a huge smile when she saw me looking at her. After school I wanted to call her but she told me "go and call someone else 💀". What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

It was rude for her to put it that way, but ultimately she’s saying she isn’t interested in you. From the interactions you described, everything about it seemed friendly. I know sometimes that behavior can read differently if you aren’t used to women being so nice and outgoing with you, but that’s all it was. Try not to take it personally.

[Ousaf1]

She was fixing her clothes and putting lip gloss on too. It's just weird that flirting signs can also be friendly, thanks anyways

[Opinion Owner]

This isn’t flirty, my friend. Just telling you from a woman’s perspective. Sorry you got the wrong impression.

[Ousaf1]

Got it, what is flirting then? Cuz I'm pretty sure that eye contact and smiles have something to do with it. Tell me if I'm wrong 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Of course those behaviors can be flirtatious, but in most cases, eye contact is respectful, it’s polite. If I’m talking to you directly, especially after having asked for your help, I feel it would be incredibly rude to look everywhere but at you. Smiling, laughing, sure these can come off as flirty, but these are also the traits of a kind woman. If I just sought your help, imagine if I were stoic, cold and flat, that would be uncomfortable for both parties. I’m going to chat a bit, be kind, if you’re a cool person, sure let’s add each other on Instagram. From my perspective asking for someone’s social media has become so normalized, as if it’s second nature. Anyway, I agree that it’s weird how some flirting signs can be friendly as well, I guess you just have to get better about differentiating them.