3 Great Dates With a Girl, She is Doesn’t Seem Very Excited or Affectionate, What is the Deal?

[Anonymous]

I am 27 and she is 25. She’s extremely smart and beautiful. She’s also educated and quite “hard to get.” She keeps saying she wants to see what kind of guy I am. She has only been with a handful of guys and has only had 2 boyfriends. We went to dinner, bowled for hours and went to college football game on dates 1-3 and had a blast every time. We kissed the last two dates but her communication seems distant sometimes when it used to be paragraphs. We talk for hours one night and the next I get short responses. She says I just seem too good to be true and she thinks I’m really hot but every girl I’ve been with before seems to be all over me. Is she just unsure? I want to back off to build interest but she said that is a turnoff and she doesn’t want a guy that gives no effort. Ladies is this what you do when you aren’t interested?

[Anonymous]

Interested but like she said not fully trusting you so 2 choices!

Keep going show her you are into her after her kinda ignoring you phase! Also keep away from female friends whose are worrying her! Don't go for sex for a while!

2nd end it cause she might have decided she is not into you no matter what you do! She probably decided that your to perfect and she is not ready to be serious about a real connection! Just boy toys but if you act like one dumped cause she thought you were better!

[strateguy632]

she is wisely "taking things slow" she wants to see who you are really, before getting hopes.