Why do women care about muscle over personality?

[Anonymous]

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

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Oh, ye of little faith and much dismay, Personality's great but let me say, There's nothing like a six-pack to behold, A sight that never gets old.

Biceps bulging, veins popping out, Makes a woman want to shout, "Take me now, you beast of man, Show me what those muscles can!"

A chiseled chest, a back so wide, Legs like tree trunks, oh my oh my, It's not just about looks, don't get me wrong, But damn, those muscles are strong!

They make us feel safe, protected, secure, Like nothing in the world could endure, The power of a man with muscle mass, Oh, how time seems to pass.

So, why do women care about muscle over personality? Because sometimes, we just need some physicality, A little bit of lust, a lot of desire, To set our hearts and bodies on fire.</p>

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

@boobslayer wtf happened...

[Asker]

So sex is the most important thing for you then.

[BoobSlayer]

@erverted_cree I've seen this sort of thing before. Lord Bean2k21 make his presence known in the digitial world by injecting coom into hyperlinks.

[noemiii]

What a stupid assumption. Most women actually don’t really care how physically fit a man is and they do prefer a man with a nice personality over a physically fit one. Maybe the women YOU want are into physically fit men, that’s usually how it goes with questions like these.

In fact, if anything it’s a man with money who attracts most women. Men are actually the ones more driven by sexual attraction than a woman’s personality. Women these days know they don’t have to develop actual personalities behind their appearance as long as they’re very attractive.

[Asker]

The women and men who choose personality over body are the real people of society regardless of what they're attracted to. Those who choose the opposite have sexual fantasies , hormone issues and possibly body dysmorphic disorder. I used to think I wanted a fit woman but as time has gone on I think I prefer a woman who thinks that way over the other type.

[noemiii]

No, they are not, because society is not majority attractive people. In fact, many studies have shown that attractive people have a lot harder time dating than average looking people. Most people in society are average. Average people date other average people. While a man might see an attractive woman while he has an average girlfriend, he usually just wants to sleep with her. That’s how that goes.

Why people pick body over personality has nothing to do with you, frankly. It’s their personal choice to be shallow. You don’t like it, go join them. Gym memberships are $9.99 and if you aren’t working out, you’re not going to attract a fit woman, no freaking duh.

[Asker]

I said I no longer wanted a fit women. You quite clearly wanted to banish me as much as possible.

[Asker]

What part of" I used to think" did you not understand.

[Asker]

Bash*

[TheSpaceGnome]

"Women these days know they don’t have to develop actual personalities behind their appearance as long as they’re very attractive."

That assumption is just as stupid as the asker's question.

[noemiii]

@TheSpaceGnome Nothing about it is an assumption. I am a woman and I know how women are. I can debate you all day and night that the average attractive woman puts more emphasis on her appearance than her personality. I’m fact, it’s a well known stigma of attractive people in general. Now please, kindly F off unless you have a real argument besides an article you read somewhere.

[noemiii]

I’m sure you don’t want fit women because you are not a fit man! Fit men want fit women. Fit women want fit men. Sounds like now you just want something more achievable to you.

[Anonymous]

It's probably 60% personality 40% looking fit. Women today are pretty shallow. I mean they still want a guy with personality. But they want it with some beefcake. Because you have to understand they have to sell that they love this guy to other women. And if he's not cut like a Greek Adonis then her girlfriends are going to say "why". And that'll embarrass her. You have to understand that to today's woman a majority of the relationship is "show" to her. To most women today is an accessory like her ear rings, or shoes.

[Pegases]

There are women that care more about superficial things, and then there are women that care about abstract qualities. I will say that superficial women are more common than not, but that doesn't mean women as a whole are that way. I think we just see so many shallow women that we assume they are all like that. The reality is there are still some women that value depth, because they have it themselves.

[HappyWoman34]

It’s a maturity thing. That’s younger women.

[DarkLegacy]

No excuses for doing it at any age and will not be forgiven either

[HappyWoman34]

@DarkLegacy everyone has the right to choose and learn for themselves, the hard way.

[HappyWoman34]

Surely, you’ve been through an experimental stage where you weren’t ready to settle down? No? Well I guess not everyone was born perfect like you lol

[DarkLegacy]

No woman should think she can fuck about with toxic guys when she is young and expect a decent guy when she is older

[DarkLegacy]

Stop trying to make out that women are allowed to behave badly just because they are young and get away with it

[HappyWoman34]

@DarkLegacy of course they’re allowed where I’m from. What century did you come from?

[HappyWoman34]

Even God in every religious text like the Quran and the bible say as long as you stop and repent, it’s ok.

[DarkLegacy]

I don't give a flying fuck about any God

[HappyWoman34]

I believe in God and I think God’s words are more relevant than yours. Unless of course, you’re taking over from the Pope or God’s added you to his Facebook list.

[HappyWoman34]

Well, now we can tell your opinion of women. You foul mouthed beast.

[DarkLegacy]

Well i exist for a start whereas God does not, lol

[HappyWoman34]

@DarkLegacy prove it

[DarkLegacy]

The fact that nobody has seen him witnessed him or science had not found him proves it. Science explains how everything came to be, and it tears apart the God delusion

[HappyWoman34]

@DarkLegacy I disagree and that’s not sufficient proof

[HappyWoman34]

Now, prove that you’re not a woman hater with medieval views.

[DarkLegacy]

When you prove that you are not a deluded fuckwit

[HappyWoman34]

@DarkLegacy I’ve already proven it by being polite, respectful and open minded. Whereas, you’ve been tyrannical, closed minded and truculent.

[HappyWoman34]

If you don’t understand what any of those big words mean, then I suggest you buy a dictionary. Of course, I doubt they have illustrated ones with pictures added, to help you to better understand, in case you can’t interpret the sentences

[DarkLegacy]

How does that prove anything, such dogshit being spewed out here

[DarkLegacy]

I already know what those words mean

[HappyWoman34]

@DarkLegacy you’re funny lol

[lightbulb27]

most don't.

because they value that?

[Cynicaldreamer]

The same reason why some men care about how a woman looks over her personality... see what I did there? Goes both ways.

They put looks over personality- which let's face it, all of us to an extent want an attractive partner. Regardless, personality is a big factor- someone can look great, but if they can't hold a conversation or have any sense, a nice body or muscles don't mean anything! At least that's my opinion...

Anyway, there are plenty of women that don't chase after guys with muscles. Every guy I've dated in the past or had a crush on? No muscles. If anything, they had "dad bods" (and that was before I knew what that term meant). So if that bothers you so much, find a woman that DOES put your personality first, and doesn't focus so much on looks; believe me, we do exist.

[confusedgirlyxo]

me personally i really couldn’t care less about muscle tbh show me u care about me show me you’re into me show me u actually care about what i have to say now THAT is attractive regardless of your body type

oh and be funny fr so important

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I beg to differ.

Personality is a priority.

The muscles are just bonus features.

[AnusNdaPainus]

First off women care more about sounding or looking like a good person so you won’t get an Honest answer because they’re just going to say what sounds good using words like should, would, could , me , I and a GAG favorite “it depends”

second they are biologically inclined to be more attracted to muscular men

[Screenwriter]

I'd suggest these people are fairly shallow. Though it's always nice if someone is toned and fit, if they're jerks, who cares what they look like? You're not going to hang around them if they act and treat you badly.

[Katie1964]

Nope. I want Hubby to be physically fit and active, it's healthier for him and more attractive to me. I would leave if he stopped working out though.

[Asker]

🙄 wow you sound loyal.

[Anonymous]

Where in the hell did you get that from?

[DarkLegacy]

The proof is in the pudding, i know loads of muscular guys usually unnecessarily muscular who are never short of women even though they have toxic personalities. Decent guys with decent personalities remain single. Women just like to deny these things because they know they are shitty people with for going for muscles in guys

[Quigly]

I've never seen this to be the case, in reality. Usually girls go after guys with money. They don't really like the guy with money either. But, The Girls that go after a guy for money don't really have any respect for the relationship and are the most likely girl that cheats.

[Samantha_Stevenson]

No never

I would love the man being quite muscular and built , but if he is not a good guy otherwise, then it doesn't matter

In other words, muscle is never the measure of a man

[Asker]

😂 Try telling that to young women aged between 16-25 in my area, because that is the bar they aim for & do not want to settle for less then that.

[Asker]

I believe it shouldn't either, but I'm not a woman so my op doesn't matter.

[Samantha_Stevenson]

You are right but I won't say till 25
Around 15-20, a lot of girls value a lot on physical appearance

[Smashingdoozy]

I don't 🙃 large muscles are off putting. Id like to be more important than the gym tyvm

[Anonymous]

HELLO, THIS IS ALL WOMEN, THE HIVE MIND OF FEMALE KIND.

MUSCLE REQUIRES EFFORT AND DISCIPLINE IN MANY CASES.

SUCH DEDICATION IS OFTEN A POSITIVE PERSONALITY TRAIT.

CONSUMING IT MAKES THE HIVE MIND STRONGER.

[Asker]

Nah I'd rather be funny and to value a person's mindset& values/ how somebody is treated. Then be an object that is used for sex & breeding purposes only which is why fit men / women are chosen for.

[Asker]

People who choose character/personality and how they are treated, care about the person not their body that carries them through life.

[Light_beam]

Heey.. hello emywolf 😀 ..

[inhua]

replace "muscle" with "attractive face"

[Asker]

I have an attractive face when I'm cleaned shaved & I had my haircut faded on the sides. If I let it go I become instantly unattractive in the face.

[inhua]

regardless of what physical feature you put, personality is prioritized last because it's the easiest to fake/change whereas looks is harder to fake/change

[Asker]

A person appearance deteriorates over time. Personality only changes if you let it otherwise it doesn't.

[TravelingMaaike]

This woman doesn't.

I prioritise soul and personality over good looks. If a hot muscular guy is a scumbag, then he is not worth my time.

[catarecute]

yea because you are attracted to those type of women. women who care about appearance in men care about about appearance on them too. they are superficial but always look the piece.

[Sonorous]

Personality is often times seen over muscle in my opinion. But I'm not a woman so I can't confirm that. I definitely know that looks are more important than both combined & more. 🤣

[Sonorous]

Oh and I'm talking about long term relationships

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Woman exclusively care about personality. Now whether or not they can accurately determine a guys personality is a whole other story.

[MemeSupreme]

if i choose someone who has muscles over someone's personality then we probably didn't have chemistry to begin with lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

People who only care about looks are shallow and not worth bothering with.
People who only care about personality are shallow and not worth bothering with.

All or nothing.

[love_conquers_lust]

Ha. These fucking questions. They should rename this site girls<>antagonize<> guys. GaG unto me with a spoon.

[BuckCannon]

Kudos for making idiots agree with this. LMAO

[Asker]

People ask questions about things they don't understand, not what they do understand.🤔

[BuckCannon]

Women don't care about muscles. The biggest mistake guys make is to assume that women don't have brains. They do! Sure, their brains are much smaller than ours, but just learn to play her brain like a Stradivarius violin. Capture her tiny brain, and she will be YOURS.

Do you know what negging is?

[Asker]

No man or women use that phrase in my life so no I don't know what "negging is ".

[Asker]

Has*

[BuckCannon]

Fred is at a party.

There are a lot of hot babes.

Fred: Sally, that dress looks amazing on you.
Sally: Thank you.
Fred: But if you don't me asking; why did you choose yellow?

You've now taken a compliment, and turned it into a "neg."

I realize that this site is about giving advice.
But you must also realize that no one here wants advice. Right?

[Asker]

Yh most forums apart from Reddit are full people who don't want advice though that's it's purpose.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

They do not. In the end, we care about personality. Even the most shallow of us.

[Asker]

I only seem to notice western women pick guys with personality if they ha I've a good body or who either haven't got a good personality. Or fuckboys/degenerate guys.

[DarkLegacy]

Because they are pathetic, brainwashed and hypocritical

[HelpfulWoman]

plenty don't. remember assuming simply makes you look to be an ass

[Asker]

Tell me someone who's a guy, that has been successful in dating, that has mild Asperger's , tall, handsome, fun/funny, slim, English. I don't know a guy like myself who does or women in fact never met a woman with any form of autism.

[HelpfulWoman]

I don't know anybody with aspergers so that would be silly of me to compare.
Same you "you not knowing" someone exactly like you doesn't mean they don't exist. I literally am friends with a autistic teenage girl so...

[Asker]

Ik they exist I'm surprised I haven't met one because my work involves working within the public area. Do you work with her or did she find you? How do you interact with her?

[HelpfulWoman]

I worked at the yard she had horses on, her mother then basically hired me to be a bit of a baby sitter ( drive the daughter to the yard and help her with the horses) and our friendship just sort of grew from there. she's moved away now but i still keep in touch over social media. and we even went to a concert together

[Asker]

Would you say that autistic women prefer jobs where limited interaction is made then. It might be why I haven't met one? What was her name?

[LiamJHayden]

Which women? They are hardly monolithic in thought or preferences. Also in which circumstances? For a fling? For a life partner? The broad assumptions here make the question unanswerable.

[Asker]

Life partner

[Radiate143]

Well, I don't. So maybe your poll needs fixing. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Society needs more women like you.

[Radiate143]

I don't think the women you mentioned are in the majority.

[ChooChooHaha]

Not always true.
In my case, you need the whole thing.

[Pacquet]

Guys care about muscles more than women do. I will say most women like a guy thats bigger than them but that doesn't mean muscular.

[Asker]

That does mean muscle because height doesn't mean you're bigger than them.

[Pacquet]

Not always but believe what you’d like.

[havingfun2023]

They would for short term flings. 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻😊😊😊

[FreyaRed]

Do you have muscles? If not, I think you don't have the competency to create such theories.

[apahe4]

tbh i think its the complete opposite. imagine having a really good bod but a shitty personality 😬

[Pohjolan]

Evolutionary mismatch. A good personality didn't keep a woman safe from predators or help hunt meat apart from being a team player.

[Asker]

I don't see Dinosaurs roaming the earth, or seeing lions prowling the Streets.

[Pohjolan]

Which part of MISMATCH did you not understand?

[Asker]

The part where it's related to the question.

[Pohjolan]

You know poor reading comprehension doesn't improve your dating experience either.

[Fireguy17]

Probably the same way some guy prefer big boobs over brains and personality.

[Sasha0426]

I’ll never understand why y’all ask these questions just to call women liars and start arguments.

[Asker]

What part of the question does it say "women are liars"?

[Sasha0426]

Not the question itself. But, if women were to say they don’t care about muscle over personality, they would get called get liars. I know how this game works.

[BarryLiverstone]

They don’t. Unless you literally mean the first 20 sec. Once you open your mouth and start to talk the personality takes over

[Pohjolan]

The first 2 secs define whether a guy gets swiped right or left.

[Unit1]

Pretty sure men care about muscles way more than women do.

[MJtheCoach]

They care about both.. If a guy doesn't have a personality. He'll be friend-zoned. A nice body requires hard work.

[robocop666]

ever see this?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/0avuIqeergQ

[Anonymous]

Does it matter? Just shut up and get back into the gym!

[EmmaMary]

That's certainly news to me.

[DarkLegacy]

It is box standard modern women

[Anonymous]

Personality can be faked, but muscles can't be.

[JackCarter]

That's a common misconception among guys

[Luckycharms12]

Most don't actually but it doesn't hurt

[grega239]

Muscle=strength =security

[butterly248]

Nope

[Anonymous]

I dont know, we just do.

[MaxUsefull]

For protection

[Meropatrick]

Its hardwired

[Misogynthisdik]

Hypergamy

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

I don't think so

[Anonymous]

It’s a lie

[DarkLegacy]

Nope women saying it is not are the liars

[fuddly]

They don't