What’s wrong with women liking muscles?

[Anonymous]

Muscles are something any man can accomplish or woman for that matter. If a guy doenst want a girl whose morbidly obese then eat right and hit the gym.

It’s not like things that are out of your control like height or pecker size. If someone judges you for that then they aren’t your person anyways. But my gosh…

Its not that hard to get a six pack abs. It’s not hard to loose a little weight. I’m not saying men want someone whose a twig either. I’m not saying women want a dude whose over steroided

[Oliverlogan263]

You've got a point man. There ain't nothing wrong with girls liking muscles. It's something a dude can work for just like anything else.

I mean, if a girl expects a guy to look a certain way, it's only fair the other way too you know? Nobody wants to date someone who don't take care of themselves. Hitting the gym is an easy way to show you put in effort.

And muscles ain't all about looks neither - it shows you strong and active. Fit girls probably want a guy who can keep up in the outdoors and stuff. Plus building muscle makes you feel good about yourself too.

As long as people ain't being jerks about it or having crazy unrealistic standards, I don't see an issue. Keeping fit is important no matter what. Maybe some dudes just need to work a little harder instead of complaining girls don't like them how they are. Show you care about yourself and your health - bet that'll get more girls interested.

So nah man, I'm with you. Muscles ain't a bad thing and if it makes some chicks like a guy more, more power to them for putting in the effort at the gym. Just means those dudes care about how they present themselves, you know?

[Asker]

I agree with you!

[Asker]

It’s the same with women angry about men who don’t like their weight. Yet they body shame men. Why would a dude with a six pack abs want a woman who can’t take care of herself?

I mean we all have our own thing. I judge people on their character more then appearance. But people who have double standards are for sure is a character problem.

I think you very well said what I was thinking though about muscles

[Oliverlogan263]

For sure man, double standards are whack. Goes both ways too - guys shouldn't be shaming girls for their looks either. We're all works in progress, you know?

At the end of the day people just need to focus on bettering themselves the healthy way, not put others down. Like if a girl wants muscles on a dude then she should hit the gym too! Everything in moderation.

I get wanting an attractive partner, we all do. But what really matters long term is finding someone cool you vibe with. Looks fade, personality's what lasts.

Like you said, it's character that counts. As long as both people treat each other well, who cares what the numbers on the scale say! You find your soulmate, get in good shape together while enjoying life. Win win.

Glad you feel me dude. Takes two to tango - can't expect perfection if you ain't perfect yourself. People need to chill on labels and loosen up. You do you, I'll do me, we all gonna make it brah!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nope, nothing wrong with women wanting a guy with toned or muscly features! Nothing at all!

[TommyMountainFigure]

@asker.. You said:- If she won’t take care of herself and needs a dude with a 6 pack. It’s a problem. " Yes but not just because of the obvious. A woman that thinks that way will constantly try and get the guy to eat bad foods, and STILL keep his 6 pack!

[Asker]

I don’t like people who have double standards. If they refuse to take care of themselves and want a 10.

It’s like men who are angry with women for liking muscles. They want a girl whose a 9 or 10… Yet they don’t even bother with personal hygiene

[TommyMountainFigure]

Again. I am in complete agreement with you.

[Zayeem]

Yeah. but i didn't have the timeand opportunity to have some abs. I'll try to start after couple of months.

[Asker]

I mean I get it we get busy. But. I don’t think women liking muscles is a bad thing. Ifs different then height or something that someone can’t control

[Zayeem]

Yeah. It's normal. Just like they don't like my looks.😂I think it's fair. I also would want my partner to have ood looks and figure.

[Anonymous]

Nothing as long as she weighs no more than a 100 lbs.

[Asker]

I’m fine with a girl not weighting 100 pounds especially if that weight is in muscle. But if she’s a slob…. Ehhh

[Asker]

But I agree with double standards. If she won’t take care of herself and needs a dude with a 6 pack. It’s a problem.

[Badgirlnatalia]

Nothing?