Why do women bait guys when they have boyfriends? And do they bait specific guys? (Page 2)

[madelyndrae]

Well my friend research estrogen effects body. U said school so I assume it's high if not all same. Age range is puberty to 25 or almost 35. For woman. Now that science is put into play. My experience. I am 35. Simply her v is hot from hormones. She's confusing attention with effection. The relationship has faded past a point where it's not fresh. Year to 3 years.

[Troy04]

I think that they might not be happy with their current relationship, so they are trying other options but that seems very immoral. Instead she should have ended a relationship and then have tried. She might do the same thing to you as well. It happend to me as well. I stayed long distance from her. No eye contact no giving her any attention.

[genericname85]

for the same reason men bait women by having sex even though they don't want a girlfriend. men want sex. women want attention. difference being that "getting attention" is not usually seen as cheating. it is what it is.

[molonski2]

Id say its a case of keeping all options open , in the case you mention she is not 100% happy with that guy...

[Billlewis]

Because they enjoy teasing us, and that's fine with me, 'cause I love it.

[Asker]

Are the baiting only guys they find attractive? Or everybody?

[Billlewis]

That I don't know, but my guess is, they enjoy teasing practically any guy they think will be vulnerable to their teasing.

[Dilԁοphοbe]

Opinion owner is a self proclaimed cuck, don't take everything seriously from him.

The situation happens all the time, I had it as fucked up as you just described if not worse. They'd even be wearing rings and hiding their hands as soon as they see you looking at them. She thinks you're the Chad and I bet she's not a perfect 10 (probably like universally rated no more than a 6) (and we all know that even being a 6/10 female it can be easy to drown in an ocean of free dicks) but despite the availability of cheap dicks, she knows she's universally only a 6 and keeps on trying to have the experience of what it is like to be a "10/10" so she will stalk the Chads, just to get the thrill and validation of having the hottest guy around worship her, whether she ends up spreading her legs for you or not, she might spread her legs if you pursue it but as I mentioned, in most cases they are no more than a 6/10 anyway... a 10/10 doesn't need to seek the chad because they already have a "10/10" partner. She and her boyfriend are probably average, and her ego demands a "chad".

[Anonymous]

Why not just find a single woman for your own? In the end who cares what the fuck is in the mind of such a attention whore, I wouldn't bother to know, yeah she is a distraction in your boredom at gym but like 99 % she does not worth the bother, there are many women out there. I for one would ignore her completely, yeah she will come to you eventually and then ignore her even more.

[BigDog1989]

Attention whores

They like to know they "still got it"

[Asker]

She gets hit on everyday and asked out. Why Em I being targeted?

[Yannae]

Because the guy they bait either doesn't care or doesn't know about their relationship. And because the boyfriend didn't do enough research when dating that girl.

[82lynx]

This happened to me often when I was in school. A few years ago I learned that one of the cruelest offenders now has MS. Can’t say I feel for her.

[KC-Sunbeam]

This form of manipulation is either one of two thing or both: A) they want to show that they have power over men by making them react, B) they feel insecure & want validation, or A & B.

[Anonymous]

They like to be put on a pedestal. Made to feel like a queen, lusted after.. Get free food behind her mans back.. Women are crazy and full of sin.. lol..

[slatyb]

Maybe she's not happy but is afterwards to be alone. IIWY I would ask her.

[GoodEnoughThen]

They may be seeking extra affirmation outside their primary romantic relationship. Not uncommon.

[strateguy632]

because they don't know he is not available

[Mangospacho]

She probably just likes the attention. She already has a boyfriend so she probably won’t act on it but she likes to know she can attract all these guys.

[Drewtate]

For male Attention and validation. They are vampires for it.

[Avicenna]

When this happens, it's usually about validation

[Anonymous]

Back up plan in case the relationship goes sour…

[OddBeMe]

I don’t think on average women are trying to torture us by baiting. I’m sure some percentage like to.

But I imagine they don’t know they’re doing it.

[ProbablyClueless]

They're looking for the ego boost that comes from knowing someone finds them attractive.