What would be your advice approach or no and if yes then how?

[Kris31]

Alright dear girls of this platform.
Me single after a 9 years relationship lost in the world of a single 😂 good news is I didn't fall for the dating app trap si I'm not using those.

Alright to my point now after almost a year of being single I met the same girl at 3 of the most strangest places I'd never in my life visit if it wouldn't be for absolutely random circumstances that just happened.
At the first event ( psychology seminar) I felt someone starting at me until I found her. I sometimes tried to get a quick glimpse she as well.
Second event ( book presentation) was about a month later where the and thing basically happened.
Third one was about 2 days right after the second event where due to circumstances I started grocery shopping at a further away shop then my usual one from time to time.

Now I met her once in a month when I go to the grocery store and she usually wears headphones looks up to me and back on the ground again.

So I'm aware you can't read minds but do you think she might be interested or am I being delusional right here?🤷 From her vibes she gives off, she feels like a shy person and I might be intimidating due to my confident look.( or so I have been told at least 🤷)

If so, I would really like to ask how do I approach a girl who's walking with headphones? It really puts me off on what to do without being pushy😅

It really is a miracle if I find someone who I am genuinely interested in getting to know so I don't want to let that slide without trying. Last time it took me 2 years till I found my ex 😂

Especially because I'm not into dating and hookups. I just choose a partner because I simply know I will like that one specific person for absolutely no legit reason. I simply feel it🤷😅

So I really do appreciate all your insights ladies!

I just hope firstly she doesn't think I stalk her or something, cuz we really did meet at the strangest places 🥲 I could naturally explain why I was at those events and that grocery store xD

[petitedollbabee]

If you’re only running into her at the grocery store, maybe you could start by waving at her and giving a quick smile when she glances at you? It not impossible to catch the attention of and strike up a conversation with someone who’s wearing headphones. I don’t know if she’s interested in you but it won’t hurt for you to try talking to her and if that goes smoothly, you could ask for her number.

[Selene1600000]

You’re not delusional for noticing repeated encounters, but you also can’t assume interest without a real conversation. The safest move is a simple, respectful approach like saying hello and making light small talk when she is not busy or fully closed off with headphones. A “dating coach for men” would tell you to keep it brief, read her response carefully, and only continue if she clearly engages back.