Is this a good approach?

[Anonymous]

Whenever someone says something good or something bad about me, I note them down in the Notes app just so I can look at myself and see how I could improve myself. This is what it looks like:

You’re nice, kind and funny
You’re smart
Guys like you are so rare
How do you do that? That’s amazing
You’re so kind
You’re one of the only guys I can actually have a normal conversation with
You’re innocent
I can’t imagine you doing anything bad
I wish I can play instruments
You’re so talented
Thank you so much
You are a lifesaver
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Be sincere to yourself
Be wise
You sound white
You’re quiet
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You need to be more organised
Don’t be selfish
You always watch movies and cartoons
You lack wisdom
I don’t want to hurt your feelings
You’re ugly i can’t lie
You’re mean
You need social interaction
You’re not my type
Don’t be so forgetful
Absentminded is what you are
You forgot! Just admit it
You’re not an old man
You’re abit slow
Grow up!
You took it too far
A two year old can do that
That is a terrible thing to say
That is a horrible way of doing things
What is your problem?
Why are you guilt tripping?
Why are you begging?
You’re such a creep
You’re a nerd
We can’t trust you
Don’t talk to her/him like that!
Don’t waste my time
You think I look like an idiot
You’re not funny
You are boring!
I want to get away from talking to you I can’t lie
You’re actually annoying!
You’re weird
You think I'm stupid?
You idiot
You’re Weak hearted and needy
You’re deranged
You’re insane

[NathanDavis]

definitely not a good approach...

you should not give way too much value to the perceptions of others, or not this way

and that is because in most cases, it will be about perception... different people might think and feel differently about for many reasons... even the context of situations can also be different so how do you look like to others can vary a lot

in any case... you're sticking to a few words that were said, and maybe you're not spending time on trying to see and understand why things happened the way they happened and what could have been the cause of that

people will never know you more nor better than you know yourself or about yourself... if you're going to do something like this, introspection has to come from within, it has to be more about you... and a lot less about what others said about you, for whatever reason