Dumped me - now stalking me?

[Anonymous]

To make a long story short, this guy basically dumped me and is now "stalking" me.

He will show up at places he knows I go to over and over again, and will hang around me, watch me, be all touchy-feely, etc, even suggest hanging out, but then never does anything about it. Then he will sometimes completely ignore me and be almost rude?

And I am obviously not going to pursue him since he is the one that messed up to begin with.

Can anyone explain his behavior?

[Anonymous]

stalking is psycho/controlling behavior or maybe he is curious to see if you already have found someone? and some people are just plain weird. Or maybe it was a bad break-up? or maybe he wants you back now...

[starrzglo]

He probably wants to get back together but doesn't know the right way to go about it. If he is really stalking you that is not the type of person you would want to be with

[Habakkuk]

he's just a messed up person, sorry, you'll just have to do your best to handle it, maybe he'll get things figured out eventually

[DermalPunch]

I hope you were able to figure out that he was just keeping you warm for when he is done with the thing he dumped you for. It's 101 Playa shit.