Everytime I show a female human being my boyfriend me and him argue the next day what causes it and is it just all In my head?

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RavVid · Accepted Answer

First thought has to be you subsequently feel threatened in your relationship. You are young and I presume your female friends are also.

Almost 20's and early 20's girls are at their most attractive, so it is quite likely your boyfriend is not entirely impervious to that. You might not be consciously aware these females look cute to him but unconscious awareness is a thing and we call it gut judgement or female intuition.

So i think the fights likely stem from this. Both sexes do mate guarding. Your boyfriend is likely doing nothing wrong, possibly he is just happy being in the company of two or more cute females one of whom he loves.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I think there's some details missing here...

how are you "showing" your boyfriend to people?

and, are you showing him off? often? because this could get annoying soon enough, lol

or... are you posting him or tagging him on socials? to prove a point? and maybe he gets notifications about it? or something like that?

Radiate143 · Accepted Answer

I see you are from Greece. So are you saying if you introduce your boyfriend to a female, you guys seem to argue the next day.

Don't introduce him to women. I guess you feel insecure that he may want those women and is picking fights with you so you will be repelled, break up with him and he will pursue other girls?

I think you need to speak with your boyfriend because this is just really speculative.

1073sucks · Accepted Answer

you "show" him to humans? it almost sounds you dehumanize him, he's some type of object... followed by "a female human being"... 🥴... the fact you worded that THAT way I'm inclined to think YOU are the problem here. That's really weird.

Screenwriter · Answer

If it upsets him for you to show his picture to other women, why not stop doing it? It seems like a small request. He's uncomfortable with being "shown off." Stop it.

If you felt that way and he ignored your feelings, how would that work for you? Wouldn't you feel he was violating your trust? OK. So if you stop this annoying behavior, the arguments over it will end.

Finchie40 · Answer

That sounds a little weird to me honestly , Does he have low self esteem about himself? Does he not care about your friends? Sadly sometimes
Friends can damage a relationship without you really realizing it , Are your friends judgmental? Do they gossip and talk shit about other people? Maybe your boyfriend doesn’t really care for your friends , he might feel they are toxic

virtue2332 · Answer

It's probably something that was just a random coincidence at first but know that you believe it could be the reason you are going to have a biased connection to this. Unless he is private and you tell him that you showed someone. If he has no knowledge that you have done this it's all coincidence or something you do when you show someone that irritates him subconsciously. No magic

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Maybe he is worried your female friends will tell you that you can do better than him. I know that for those on the outside, understanding the relationship might not be easy. I’ve liked guys that others did not understand my interest in them and I’ve seen girls like guys where I do not understand their interest in the guy, and it’s because emotion and personality and behaviour is not as easy to see as body and clothing and face.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Sounds like you're jinxing your relationship or maybe some kind of karma because you're showing him off for the wrong reason. Maybe you should stop showing him and see what happens

rosemilk · Answer

i'm not sure if those are related in any way... what are you two arguing about?

boggboss · Answer

U are doing some crazy overthinking or causing arguments

syncheart · Answer

Men and Women like to argue. Men and Women are different because their brains are wired differently. They see things a little different, and sometimes this causes an argument. Part of having someone in your life is learning how to argue without wrecking your relationship.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Well, he obviously doesn't like you showing him off like that.. It's nice to show love to your boyfriend, but usually when people do that, it seems like they are overcompensating for something lacking..

LazerBean · Answer

It could be that you two just argue often enough that it's a coincidence

laraWM · Answer

What are you arguing about? Maybe you could try to talk about it when everything is calm

Sonorous · Answer

You mean introduce him to another girl? Or just show a picture of him to another girl?

Sasha0426 · Answer

What. The fuck. Are you trying to ask here? I think I had a stroke reading this.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

How is this "showing" playing out?

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

You should know what causes it, you continue the argument, so how don't you know the core of the argument?

HaveNoName · Answer

Try showing it to species like Nicki Menaj or Lady Gaga or Condelica Rice or Marjorie Taylor Greene or Nikki Haley and see if they react the same as humans; female ones.

Gent207-2 · Answer

What do you two argue about?

Joker_ · Answer

are you sure you don't just have arguments like every day

Hungryghostwriter · Answer

Is your boyfriend a zoo animal who was recently released? You might be triggering his ptsd.

collie22 · Answer

Does he know how beautiful he is?

Siri137 · Answer

I don't understand the question.

justabuddy · Answer

Maybe talk to him and see why it bothers him. Maybe their is a compromise somewhere.

Summeroflove · Answer

What’s the argument over?

Anonymous · Answer

It's the Spirit of insecurity

soe11 · Answer

I think he is odd guy.

Andres77 · Answer

Umm…maybe STOP!

Batsy01010101 · Answer

Yes it's all in your tiny little head

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Why do feel the need to show people your boyfriend

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Um, huh?

Everytime I show a female human being my boyfriend me and him argue the next day what causes it and is it just all In my head?

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