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I have heard a lot of guys State they find insecurity in women unattractive. Many of them have stated women being insecure is unattractive to them. But, we are only human. We have our flaws and imperfections.
Extreme insecurity isn't attractive for anyone. It is one thing to feel self-conscious about some things and your partner changing your mind about it by accepting you the way you are or rooting for you. But nobody wants to constantly re-assure someone's insecure butt over and over again and stand their ground in their place. Overly confident people aren't too attractive, either. I'm saying that people are generally attracted to others who have a healthy sense of who they are and what they like and stand by it.
For me it depends on how severe it is. But assuming it's not extremely severe to the point where it seems like it will never get better, then I could not mind it or even possibly find it attractive. Not the specific insecurity. But the fact that the girl is relatable in this way.
Because I've got my fair share of insecurities. It's what we naturally deal with as humans. And her having a problem will allow me the opportunity to help her with it. So basically, I'll be able to express my love for her more by helping her out.
But other guys may find it unattractive because they may find it to be a nuisance. Especially if they can't relate to the specific type of insecurity the girl is going through.
It’s mainly because it can cause a lot of problems in the relationship. A lot of arguments will happen. A lot of awkward situations. Most controlling behaviour comes from insecurity.
An insecure person is often just one big headache that someone doesn’t want to deal with.
As you say everybody has flaws and imperfections, most people are insecure about something, it depends on how much.
It is very unattractive in both genders, as it leads to issues in the long run.
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Because it's exhausting.
You're constantly fighting an uphill battle with her to convince her that you aren't going to leave her. Constant suspicion. Constant questioning. Constant weird looks at other women. Never accepts a compliment. Constantly needs validation and emotional reinforcement.
I would say because they don´t know how to handle it. Guys usually avoid certain traits in people either if they don´t know how to handle the situation or they don´t want to bothered with something.
I think guys that say they can´t handle a woman being insecure have one or the other in mind. I can´t say why that´s so maybe they have different expectation concerning relationships.
i think insecurity is a rational response to being alive.
Everyone's insecure in some ways on some level. I'm not sure it's the insecurity itself that's unattractive as much as it's the need for constant validation both internal and possibly external (this is what guys dont like) to a relationship
I find it unattractive in men as well but I don't date them so I don't care.
I don't anybody founds insecurity attractive.. But we are opened to a some insecurity as long as it's not crazy..
Because it causes other issues like needing constant reassurance and fights due to fear of abandonment.
I don't think that's really true. It's much more women finding insecure men unattractive. The only caveat is that a woman who lets her insecurity make her behave badly is obviously unattractuve.
I USUALLY FIND THE REVERSE IS TO BE TRUE
For the same reason women do. But hey it's off putting for a woman to be insecure. It's a death knell for a guy to be insecure. Be thankful you're a woman.
It's more what they are insecure about.
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