Why do more girls openly express interest in me now that I am physically less attractive? Is it because they think they can have me?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s because the male idea of attractive men is not the female idea of attractive men. Women aren’t hiding who they like, look at BTS for example, they have like millions of female fans and they’re not buff or jacked. They’re just artists that are good at singing and dancing that act like goofballs on their social media, women like guys who have personalities and when a man has a shit ton of muscles, it means he’s really insecure in who he is as a person.

[RedInnocent68]

There’s a lot of narcissism to unpack there, but no. It’s what @cupcakethedestroyer said, your impression of attractiveness is different from girls…