What does it mean when a girl expects you to go down on her but doesn’t want to reciprocate?

Like she said she strongly dislikes it and doesn’t want to do it. The second part is she gets somewhat violent gripping my head like a vice grip to the point where it’s hurt and she seems to be completely unaware

What does it mean when a girl expects you to go down on her but doesn’t want to reciprocate?
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