I m going to enter my 20s. Why it feels so scary? Anyone felt same?

[MAHIGEET]

I feel like I m getting too old and haven't done anything yet that can make me enough confident to enter 20s.

[Oliverlogan263]

I totally understand you. Turning 20 had me freaked for a hot minute too. Feels like you're supposed to have your shit figured out but really you're still figuring it out!

I think it's normal to feel that way though. My mentality was 20 means adulthood, gotta have a career and getting married. But we still pretty much kids, ya feel?

Let me tell you what I learned - the 20s are about exploring who you are and trying new things. It's okay if you don't have it all mapped yet. Just have some fun with it! That's how you find out stuff.

I was scared about turning 20 too. But now I realize it's just another number. I'm still learning about myself just like everyone else. And that's part of the journey!

So don't sweat it. Go into your 20s with an open mind. Try new hobbies, meet different people. See what sticks! You'll surprise yourself, trust me. Just roll with it, you got this.

[MAHIGEET]

Thanks a lot for your response

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome luv

[Fireguy17]

good lord, you are barely an adult, I have tyres on one of my cars that are older than you.
And yes I am going to replace them this spring.
At that age you are supposed to be out having fun, legally you can't even go to a bar yet.
What do you think you should have accomplished at this young age, have a house, a family and a career?
you will have the rest of your life to start doing all of the responsible adult things, so go have fun, enjoy your youth.
Someday all too soon you will wake up and wonder where did all that time go?

[MAHIGEET]

Haha. True but I don't know why I can't enjoy things till I feel like I deserve to enjoy them.

[Fireguy17]

why do you think that you don't deserve to enjoy those things whatever they may be?

[MAHIGEET]

Its very complex

[MAHIGEET]

Can I pm you? I can't actually I'll follow you. You can.

[Fireguy17]

sure, it won't be until tomorrow, it's late here.

[MAHIGEET]

That's ok

[Fireguy17]

I added that I am following you so feel free to message me.

[Berethor]

I think that you too young to feel that way, what you haven't done?

[MAHIGEET]

I don't think I have achieved anything

[Berethor]

At school? what else you should had achieved at that age?