Texting a girl?

[Anonymous]

How would a girl text a guy if she likes him? If she calls me “bro” does it mean I am friendzoned?

[hello2024]

Mmmm. I call my guy friend bro even when I considered him a possibility. Also I’ve considered him at one point as potential. It all depends if she considers you a possibility. Some people are just on the edge of friendzoned forever. He has also called me bro before, and he has flirted so it could mean a closeness and if y’all are close and she is saying bro while still showing signs of interest then TELL HER YOU LIKE HER. TELL HER ANYWAY AS A MATTER OF FACT! It’s attractive when a guy initiates things especially this. Don’t let the fear of rejection get in the way of never knowing. At least you’ll know right!

Signs:

-she texts back in a normal timeframe (30-1 hour) remember when girls like a guy (depending on the girl) they will hold back when they like a guy so they don’t appear in love or desperate

-she will continue the convo for sure! Even if it’s something simple, it doesn’t have to be a question

-she will call you or ft you, if she is the kind of person that ft people they care about. If she loves to talk over phone/ ft and she initiates that, thats a big phone especially since we don’t want to come on too strong. Vice versa if she never calls/ft anyone but she does with YOU 🫡 you’re set

ft is very vulnerable so she must feel comfortable with you so it might illustrate feelingssss

-if she texts First sometimes (not all the times but sometimes cause she doesn’t want you to feel annoyed but still wants to talk to you. So you’ll text first one day but she might text first another day) know what I mean?

- there is a natural flow in convo (like she WANTS to talk to you)

- Also look for body language clues (go onto YouTube and look up women’s body language when they like a guy) maybe she ain’t “saying” anything but her body language may be saying something else.

-she wants to see you. (If y'all see each other regularly, she will hang around your space, even if it’s a couple of feet away, she will want to see you and be able to look at you) also she might invite you to places to hang out in a group setting with friends. She wants to SEE YOU/be around you, she wants to be In your space

-You’ve prolly heard this a bunch of times but IF YOU CATCH HER LOOKING AT YOU! This one 😩 I KNOW BUT ITS REAL

when a girl has been thinking about a guy her eyes will naturally look for you in a room, they will be drawn to you. SHE WILL NEED TO LOOK AT YOU. Not starting but looking. And not always but if she likes you and wants you to know she will let you catch her looking at you.

When I like a guy and I think about him, and I know I’m going to see him, I start looking to see if he is in the room, not that I’m actually gonna go walk and talk to him cause I ain’t crazy but I like knowing he is there and it’s almost like this relief that I get to see him even if I don’t talk to him. The brain is crazy. I don't know why but it works like that.

EYE CONTACT, IF THAT GIRL ALLOWS THAT 😍 not all people can hold eye contact if they like you so take this as you will.

hope this helped and if you don’t mind answering me this question: why would a guy compliment your hair + a couple of months later notice you’re wearing lipstick (reddish) and say word for word “you’re wearing lipstick” 💀

is he just noticing things or are those little hints that he is interested?
he also asked me if I was married (I’ve known him for a while and I’m 17) so the answer is no. And I was wearing my ring on the right hand and I told him I was not married. The next time I saw him it was 3 weeks later and he asked me again KNOWING I wasn't 💀 and again I let him know that I wasn’t. What are your thoughts on that? (by the way this man don’t dm me, or nothing) he is a gentleman tho, opening doors and such but maybe he’s just being nice 😭

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I've noticed from girls who are into me:

- They text back pretty quickly, like within a few hours usually. If a girl takes all day to reply she's probably just being flaky.

- Her texts are longer than just "lol" or "nice". She puts some thought into her responses and asks me questions too so we can have a real convo goin.

- She compliments me or flirts a little. Might say I look good or say somethin funny to make me laugh.

- She's the one who keeps the conversation goin sometimes instead of always waiting for me to reply last.

- Wants to know what I'm up to and suggests things we could do together.

As for the bro thing... it kinda depends on the vibe. If a girl only ever calls me bro and is super casual all the time, then yeah she's prob just tryna be friends. But sometimes girls use it lightly like "haha sup bro" and you can tell they're still interested. Hard to say without seein how she acts around you in person too.

My advice would be try askin her to hang out just you two and see how it goes. If she says yes and seems into it then she's probably feelin you at least a little bit. Good luck man!

[Asker]

For the hanging out part, I asked her to go on road trips, vacations, etc she would always be enthusiastic with the ideas. But she would tell me she would want to invite at least one of her friend along. I don't know what does this mean?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, her wanting to bring a friend along could mean a couple different things:

- She may genuinely just feel more comfortable having another girl with her, especially for longer trips. Not necessarily a sign she's not into you.

- However, it could mean she sees you more as a friend and isn't ready for a solo date yet. Bringing a pal acts as a buffer so it's not too intimate.

- It's possible she likes the attention you give her but isn't actually interested in taking the next step.

My advice would be to try suggesting some smaller, lower pressure hangouts - like getting coffee after school or checking out a new food truck. Something just you two to see how the chemistry feels. If she still tries to invite friends, she may just wanna stay platonic for now.

Don't give up yet though! Over time as you flirt and she gets to know you better, she may come around. Just don't force it and let things progress naturally. Keep being your charming self - you never know what could happen!