Is it commonplace for brother/sister-in-law to walk around the house with no underwear on?

[Anonymous]

At first, I thought this was just a normal thing because my wife's family is pretty open about what they wear in front of other family members, but being raised quite the opposite makes me feel pretty uncomfortable around various levels of undress while I would never try to dictate what others wear, but it just strikes me as odd and makes me feel extremely uncomfortable that regardless of most conditions she will strip her underwear and leave them where either myself or worse my 4yo son can easily find them. (i. e. laying on the floor of the living room maybe a foot or two from her suitcase or leaving them on the floor in the hall) I'm not sure what to do about it if anything should be done. Not a fan of feeling uncomfortable in my own home from time to time, but I'm not going to tell anyone how they're allowed to dress however she doesn't live here either, and I'm not sure that I really like my 4yo being able to find her dirty underwear all over the house either. I haven't mentioned this to my wife yet because I'm not sure if it's worth mentioning or how it would be taken when I tell her, or if I should drop this all together and ignore it and deal with it.

[DoggyDude]

Every family is different. Sometimes brothers and sisters who've grown up together are just totally comfortable with each other. It's fine when their young, but obviously can be problematic as they reach pubity. Usually by then though their own sense of self has kicked in and will natrually become more shy.

So, I would say its common enough.

That said, I do prefer myself to be more precautious, though I'm not certain thats a good thing honestly. I'm maybe somewhat prude.

[matchrestore]

It was in our family. We were nude all the time, no shame at all! Remember, there's nothing inherently sexual about nudity. As long as everyone is comfortable with it (and it seems like they are) there's nothing wrong with going without clothes at home.

[Tim2nice]

It wouldn’t bother me, but I would make her aware that I’d have a hard time dealing with the hard on and she needs to do something about it. Either have sex with me or put some clothes on

[RavVid]

If it is your home and a visitor like your sister in law should conform to your standards in your house.

[Iron_Man]

Nobody does that I don’t care who’s in the house I would be embarrassed in front of my dog

[Asker]

That's exactly why I don't know how to approach this. Similar to how I feel, but they are far more open about it. Leaning heavily towards bringing it up to just my wife first and seeing what she says about it.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to your wife put a stop to it you can’t allow nudity like that going on. What if there’s kids around?

[Nikki1989]

For some families, yes it is.

[Asker]

In your opinion, would it be worth bringing this up then, or what suggestions would you have?

[war_daddy]

no it is not