Girls’ Do you consider yourself High Maintenance or are you pretty laid back?

[Finchie40]

I know there are females’ that like to be treated like a Princess and like to receive expensive gifts and like to brag to their friends about the gifts she received from her man, and I know there are females that don’t really need expensive gifts that are content with what she has and appreciates whatever she receives from her man. So my question to you is , do you consider yourself High Maintenance or Do you consider yourself laid back and content and grateful for what you already have in front of you?

[Simslover92]

Definitely laid back and content with what I have. My boyfriend doesn't have a lot of money but even if he did, I wouldn't want anything from him. I am very appreciative of what he is able to do. Like for my birthday he got me two sets of earrings in my birthstone which I thought was so amazing. I didn't expect him to get me that and I appreciated it so much.

A lot of women expect to get a lot of gifts from their guy but I'm not like that. If he does it, it's great but if he doesn't then that's also fine.

[LostandFound__x]

Hmmmmm a bit of both. Look - when it comes to money etc I want something reasonable. Enough to show me that you appreciate me and respect me, because as women we like to be spoiled. I would also bear in mind what the financial capability of the guy is — if he’s a millionaire I’d expect more lavish treatment than if I were with an average guy. So I’m low maintenance in that aspect.

But I’m high maintenance and to me what’s ultimately important is the way I am treated. If the man I’m with treats me with respect, truly cherishes me and supports me (and vice versa of course) I would be the happiest woman on earth. I’d take a good man over a big wedding any day.

[LostandFound__x]

Just to add to that - I once dated a guy and because I was low maintenance he started using that as an excuse to put no effort with me (financially) whatsoever. I mean if we’re on a date he’s drop me at the bus station rather than drive me home at night time. We’d have dates once every month and rather than planning it out and taking me to nice places he’d take me to a cheap chicken shop. That’s why I’ve learned that having standards in that aspect is important.

[Finchie40]

I don’t mind spoiling a girl that is spoiling me as well , it’s got to
Go both ways or the relationship will not work period , Money shouldn’t be an issue if her and I are working together doing our part in the relationship. Her and I should be a team , not the other way around. If you are constantly giving to someone without receiving than that relationship is pretty much doomed from the start. All I am saying is love only grows when 2 people have each others’ backs through the good times and the bad times. Money comes and goes but true love lasts forever if you find someone that stands by your side the same way you stand by theirs. It’s not always going to be perfect , but when you choose each other no matter what that’s where Love grows. Removing selfishness for each other and not comparing each other to other people. I will only stay committed to a girl that makes me her priority the same way I make her my priority. By valuing
Each other and appreciating each other making each other feel wanted. If she expects me to constantly spoil her , she better be doing her part on spoiling me as well

[LostandFound__x]

💯 I totally agree

[Finchie40]

Unfortunately I usually end up with girls’ that think grass is greener on the other side lol

[LostandFound__x]

I’m sure there’s plenty who would appreciate you though. I hope you know that.

[Dongie]

If I may interject from a male perspective. I have found the high maintenance female is usually pretty goodlooking , nice lean body and a possible gold digger with the personality of a pig fart.

While the traditional, down to earth, compassionate and kind non high maintenance lady is usually a beauty that is not accentuated nor flaunted. She's aware if her imagery with harsh self critique. Her ambitions are a hard working husband and a mess of kids. My kind of woman.

[sheikalana]

I might a bit of both. I don't need expensive gifts but I buy them expensive gifts myself. I don't brag about anything tho. I always like to look put together and you'll never see me leaving the house looking like I just woke up but also pretty chill. I guess balance is the key.

[Finchie40]

Nothing wrong with that for the simple fact that you work. Most high maintenance girls’ don’t work and expect everything to be handed to them like they were put on Earth to be catered to. I only date girls’ that work with me , not against me

[sheikalana]

And you're right! Don't settle for less than that. I forgot to add that I'm also a devoted, loyal and obedient wife that takes care of her Husband and cooks for him everyday of the week but when we go out to eat I appreciates that he pays for it. Apart from other bills that we have in common I don't ask him for anything else monetarily our relationship is not based on material things at all. Is way stronger and deeper than that.

[DizzyDesii]

I have expensive taste but i am not high maintenance. High maintenance people are really uppity and expect others to buy their stuff and they’d only visit a place thats extravagant/elegant. I just like things that are a bit pricey but i buy it for myself

[AmyHew1tt]

I wouldn't say I'm high-maintenance expense-wise, but due to some health issues, some would probably consider me that way.

[SweetDripp]

I don’t think I’m high maintenance, but that doesn’t mean I don’t like being treated really well.

[Nikki1989]

I like my personal space most of the time, so I don't require much attention.

[As112211]

I think it’s important for two people to feel together. Even if they don’t have a rich life, they are very happy to be able to work together.

[Finchie40]

I agree , but it seems most females’ not all but most , always want more than what she already has in front of her , Like gifts are like this important thing in her life. Shopping is important to her , every girl I have dated or ended up in a relationship with , was never content , she always needed something to make her feell satisfied , like nothing was ever good enough. Me personally doesn’t really give 2 shits about gifts , they are nice to receive if someone put thought into it , but I don’t care if they spent a dollar on it or they made it themselves , to me that’s a better gift than some overpriced item that I really don’t need , if I want something , I will go buy it myself. It just seems females’ are never satisfied for what she receives , like she is expecting this extravagant gift , if she doesn’t receive that extravagant gift , she is bummed out and says Oh, That’s it? Thanks in a sarcastic tone , like that gift wasn’t good enough for her. Like how dare you not spend 1000 dollars on my gift? So I am just curious as to why most females’ act this way? What possesses her to feel she needs extravagant gifts to keep her happy and satisfied?

[As112211]

I think you just haven't met the right person. If you find the right person, no matter what you do, she will be happy. What makes her happy is not the gift, but because you are thinking about her.
I believe not every girl is like this, as long as you meet the right person.

[Anonymous]

im in the middle, but dont worry because i fund myself

[NathanDavis]

I'm a diva...

[7Phoenix7]

A sexy one

[NathanDavis]

@7Phoenix7 hell yes, you are...

[7Phoenix7]

MFD

[NathanDavis]

@7Phoenix7 MFP...

[7Phoenix7]

*Forgive the person that spelled "you're" wrong MFD

[NathanDavis]

@7Phoenix7 you made them forget words... it happens

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm myself