Are overweight girls ignored?

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Someone who is pretty but overweight.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

depends how overweight. personally i used to be fat for part of my teen years (in my fat era cycled from about slightly overweight (bmi 26 or so) to obese (bmi 31 at my worst..). so basically what i noticed in terms of dudes was that on the slimmer end of that i'd get attention from cute dudes my age, did have guys have crushes on me, did get a decent amount of male attention in the street but i felt and knew i was a bit borderline too fat for that and that had i been a bit skinnier i would have had more of that. when i was on that fatter end, dudes my age werent interested in me unless they were fat. only got hit on by African dudes, some middle eastern dudes who liked thick women and older men. though it was easy for me to 'appeal' to a lot of guys of those specific categories. though i did notice when i got skinnier that when i was fat those guys half of the time werent that nice to me and not as respectful as they would have been had i been thin. so probably a decent amount of them they didn't view me as having much worth because of me being overweight. and obviously i do get a lot more attention since i lost weight. so basically you won't be totally ignored if at least you were where i was at weight wise, so like overweight bmi or barely obese. now i'm sure that you'll see your options and attention from guys dwindle the fatter you get. after a certain point, you'll be invisible except to feeders

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Some guys purposely choose over weight girls cause they believe the over weight girl is less likely to cheat or use him for money. Not all choose them with the expectation they will be easier then a skinny girl, some might just believe they are more loyal then skinny girls.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends how overweight. Does he have to pull her in a wagon. Cause yeah, she probably getting ignored then. But a few lbs? No. a lot of fat girls get ignored because they apologize for thier fat instead of owning it. How's a guy supposed to like you if even you don't like you. Yeah I get it, it's hard feeling unattractive. But guys deal with this to. And there's no shortage of women to remind them that they're unattractive. This is why the most successful are the guys who appear unaffected by it. It works the same for women.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes, I would say often so. People like it when they see activity with people, and being fit and trim requires continuous efforts (which encourages anyone towards that person being worth their time).

That said, "chubby chasers" are real. Meaning that there is someone who likes every type of girl. It's just finding them that's always hard (e. g. someone whos into you looking as you most natrurally do).

Anonymous · Answer

Girls lacking confidence, who let their weight be their identity, get overlooked. Like there are women who can’t help talking down about themselves or their looks, it’s pitiful and awkward for a guy trying to navigate that. If you’re confident and let your personality shine, not your weight, it makes a difference.

NathanDavis · Answer

overweight is a vague concept... and the BMI charts are outdated too... they were actually never apt to make any sensible judgment either, lol

HighValue · Answer

Women often ri g so little value to a relationship, if she can't even take care of her looks, why would any man that isn't low quality give her attention.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but no. A lot of dudes will plow a girl who is overweight w a cute face. But a lot of them are embarrassed to be seen w her. I’ve plowed a few bigger women before w cute faces but never ended up w them.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, not at all, and it certainly was not true in my case.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah lots of muscle/gym rat guys suprisely love plus size women.

Pohjolan · Answer

Pretty according to women or men? Anyway you will improve your situation not just in finding a mate but in general if you are going to start eating healthy and doing some sports.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not by me. So far, all I've ever had was overweight girls.

exitseven · Answer

No, there are lots of guys that appreciate girls like that.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I’m interested in girls that are fit. For multiple reasons

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn’t say so. Maybe it’s not some guys cup of tea then again other guys prefer it

convo_king89 · Answer

I love how only women has a separate section for overweight.. plus size

handsomelad70 · Answer

Especially by this cover boy handsome,70-year-old black Canadian lad !!!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they are, when there are normal weight girls that are pretty around. Big girls need lovin too.

Anonymous · Answer

Fat girls will still be interesting to certain types of men. Unlike 99% of men who are ignored by most women.

slatyb · Answer

How do you feel about overweight men?

war_daddy · Answer

there is no such thing as pretty and overweight

Anonymous · Answer

Fat girls are never pretty.

jahaims · Answer

Nah, fat guys exist

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

noohair · Answer

I think so.

Anonymous · Answer

yeah, pretty much

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