She is with her female friends by the way.
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+1 yA few things contradict themselves.. if you don’t want to be approached by men, why are you at the club full of horny, tipsy, drunk men. There are a plethora of other options to choose from than other than the venue you stated.
Also, revealing outfit? Really? Do are we really not smart enough to figure out why this will be a problem. You may want to just be out with friends. But your outfit is asking for male gaze and attention which is what you want, to feel validated, but you don’t seek it because you have been saturated with male attention for so long probably.
There are many options to go out with friend not in those particular settings to where you can have a wonderful peaceful night without worrying about men approaching you like that.11 Reply- +1 y
Also, if you involve alcohol, revealing clothing and going out to clubs… that particular combination doesn’t make any woman.. or men classy. Those are people full of red flags..
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+1 yYour question is contradictory. You ask how a hot woman wearing revealing clothing should act to not get attention.
It's impossible. First off, you're at a club, a place where you literally go to get hit on. Secondly, it's a hot girl we're talking about and thirdly, she's wearing revealing clothing. You're literally doing all the things to get everyone look at you and try to get physical with you.
If you don't want that kind of attention, maybe don't go to a club and dress more conservatively. Other than that just say no to the guys that approach you kindly.13 Reply- +1 y
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Correct they're not. I'm glad you understand English and that they're literally different definitions.
What I'm saying is in that scenario, your actions are contradicting what your desires. If you dress with revealing clothing at a club, you're going to be grabbing the attention that you don't want. I don't know what else to tell you to help that sink in.
Okay, I'm really confused by this. Why would you, A) go to a club, and B) wear a revealing outfit, if you didn't want men to approach you? What am I missing here? If you don't want to be pestered by men, then wear something decent and don't go to a club. There are plenty of other places you can go, and as I understand it (because I've never actually been to one) people visit nightclubs because they're searching for someone to have sex with.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yIf she’s at the club men will approach her no matter what and dven more so if she’s wearing revealing outfits. If you don’t want lots of thst sort of attention then don’t wear revealing clothes. And I don’t know why you’re talking about classy, there’s nothing classy about wearing revealing outfits (or going to the club).
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Bingo!
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Which is why were I young today, I would largely avoid clubs.
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This right here.
She's got a red flag for the outfit, and another red flag for wanting to go to a club.
The results of both behaviors... I'll stop there... why desire the results of both behaviors? Not good reasons that is anything good for a relationship.
And I'm sick of the "It's just us girls" excuse... no it isn't... that's just a fucking lie. It's just a fucking lie. They don't dress like that for a baby shower. Are guys invited to the baby shower for the specific purpose of hitting on the girls? Oh, they usually are not invited to a baby shower at all... that's strange. Well, that seems different than a club... a place men go specifically to PICK WOMEN UP FOR SEX!
A dude is not cool with this unless 1) He's cheating and doesn't care, or 2) He's a cuck and wants to watch. You only have a normal guy on your hands if he's not cool with this situation. - +1 y
@D_Bone_Steak So true. The hoe uniform is for hoeing not just hanging out with friends.
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+1 yAsk oneself 'why' would any woman... patronize a club serving intoxicating beverages which knowingly degrade one's immediate judgement, to 'merchandise' herself so as to APPEAR subjectively "hot" and DRESS 'revealingly'... if she is NOT soliciting her POTENTIAL consideration for intimate tactile interaction?
IF it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck... reasonable life experience is to TREAT IT like a duck!10 Reply
+1 ySorry my friend, if a hot woman is in the club with all girls it is damn near impossible that no one is going to approach her. But just some common things I guess would be not to make too much eye contact then, definitely not to smile and make eye contact. I mean I'm not telling you to be a bitch in the club. But a hot girl, guys are going to approach you
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+1 yIf she is with her female friends, the number of guys approaching will automatically decrease. 😁 The opposite happens when she's alone.
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+1 yIf she's in a revealing outfit, men will check her out, thinking she's looking for sex. If she's not, she should have worn something less revealing. I suppose she could try to be really chummy with her female friends, making guys think she's a lesbian.
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+1 yNo matter what a person wears no one can ensure they won't be approached by someone. Doesn't matter if you're at the club, supermarket, or church.
She could hear a sign in her front and back that says Men... Don't approach me. I'm with my friends.
I will say one day this person might miss the attention when she's 70.
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Guys will approach, it is just how she deals w it. To avoid being approached I think she would need to not even be there. If she is going to be there she might want to dress different. Her friends can also help (basically get in the way). JMO!
20 Reply464 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Why would a hot woman wear a revealing outfit to a club other than to have men approach her for sex?
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+1 yClassy women aren't in clubs (meat markets) in revealing outfits.
Your entire premise negates her being a classy woman. "While being classy"
Nope. Impossible.
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+1 yClassy and revealing outfit don't go together. Nor does club and classy. Classy women don't go to disgusting places like that nor do they dress like a slut
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+1 yshe should stay with her female friends as anyone can take advantage of her in the club she would be safe if she is with her female friends
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yes as a good guy I know what bad guys can do to get sex they can rape you too
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dressing like a slut is fine i couldn't wear a lon skirt or dress at a club either
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@chrissykerdock I know but you should be with your female friends as I am nice and wise guy and I am giving advice to you
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im not saying she shouldn't but wearing the short dresses isn't necessarily for men either
+1 yThis makes no sense. Why even go to the club then? This is called immaturity.
30 ReplyDoes this girl work in the Club as a Dancer 💃 or she and her girlfriends just visiting? Is it a male strip club “Chippendales?” Or female strip club? You need to “Update” your question or maybe I’m just a dumb blonde?
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+1 yI'd say the woman's wanting attention if she's wearing revealing clothing. She's out on the prowl for a man a specific man. But she does not need to have revealing clothes to catch man most the time. So grow up. That's all I would say.
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+1 yOh honey no matter what she does there will always be someone who is definitely going to approach her
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+1 yMen are going to approach you no matter what you wear
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+1 yTough one. Wearing a revealing outfit but wanting to be taken serious is a bit contradictory for most people.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yBy wearing a coat with a closed zipper over her revealing outfit
Or wear your revealing outfit and deal with being approached. Alcohol takes away peoples social inhibitions; what do you expect?
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+1 yVery brash and brazenly!! And then attempt to force herself on every man in the place! THAT'LL chase them away!!
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+1 yDrop your dress, play with your vagina in front of him than ask: "i wanna do all these but don't want to be approached by men sexually" grow up armenian girl 🤣🤣
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yWhy would she go to a club wearing revealing clothes if she doesn't want to be approached by men? The answer... she wouldn't.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI think you're asking a question with no solution. Class is not a man-repellent. They'll come up to you anyway.
30 ReplyStay close to her female friends and don't drink too much alcohol.
22 ReplyIt's the expression on her face, her eyes not avoiding eye contact but having that demure ladylike aura about her. Most men, at least in my day, could tell a lady.
00 Reply334 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. If she is in a club with a revealing outfit, she is very likely looking for sexual attention.
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+1 yWell first of all she shouldn’t have that revealing outfit if she wants to get chatted up
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+1 y''Revealing outfits'' simply AREN'T ''classy :D
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yWhy is this hot woman with a revealing outfit at a club in the first place? LOL She's there for fucking attention, and that's why she's dressed like that. Don't' be so stupid.
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00 ReplyNo one is or looks classy dressed in revealing clothing in a club
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. No one is or looks classy dressed in revealing clothing in a club
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+1 yYou are tbh in the wrong place if you don't want men approaching you
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+1 yWomen in a night club wearing revealing clothes are there in hopes to get sex from a specific guy they like so this question doesn't make much sense.
00 Reply 520 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Clubs are where guys go to look for skeezers, at least around these parts
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+1 ywhere a classy outfit. Don't dance provocatively. Dance at gay night clubs. Stay in a group.
00 Reply481 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. If you're at a club wearing a revealing outfit then you're looking for male attention.
00 ReplyI think men will always approach her, no matter what she is wearing.
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+1 yi'd say don't make eye contact with anyone
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+1 yRelaxed and natural with an air of confidence imao.
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u +1 ydon't leave the reserved VIP area
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+1 yNot going to happen.
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