Can a girl think more of a guys appearance then he does?

[Anonymous]

Like women look or stare at me in my brain it tells me I’m ugly or gross looking nothing ever positive so I guess in ways my brain isn’t at all conditioned to pull anything positive from attention from the opposite gender

[_Maya_]

"my brain isn’t at all conditioned to pull anything positive from attention from the opposite gender"

So why care then enough to post this question? Like why is it even an issue then? It sounds like you have a bad attitude for whatever reason. Maybe you had bad experiences. I don't really know but if you are "conditioned" to take nothing positive from girls then don't and keep to yourself as you replied to the other anon that currently posted on your question. I guess misery does love company by the looks of that conversation. Then keep to yourself if that makes you happy. I doubt it does and I think you are trying to fool yourself into believing it does but hey... that is your choice.

[Asker]

It’s just a general question cause I notice in public that some women stare and my brain goes automatically to something is wrong with me. It’s not that I have a bad attitude it just simply never happens I have gone through life with very few people giving compliments so

[_Maya_]

"my brain goes automatically to something is wrong with me"

Is that a good attitude then?

[Asker]

No it’s not a good attitude but I can’t just go into thinking something good of a situation when it simply hasn’t happened women don’t flirt, check me out I have never had any friends so that’s how I believe that it’s the outcome that something must be wrong because anything else wouldn’t process to me

[_Maya_]

You have a serious confidence issue and defeatest attitude. I don't think it is all your fault either. Experience in social situations certainly contribute but you aren't helping yourself at all. I get a vibe from you and I don't know you at all. I bet you project that insecurity without even knowing it and people take notice. Do you think I would approach someone or flirt with a guy that comes off like you are right now?

[Anonymous]

women's visual perception is a lot sharper than men's

men's visual perception is just more broader overall

that being said, a woman is very conscious of a man's looks from the size of his nose to the placement of his eyebrow bridge, the angle of his jawline and most definitely his height

she cares about her looks too so you best believe she cares even more about your looks because her good looks are specifically reserved for specific looking guys

[Asker]

So why would a girl waste time looking at a guy if he wasn’t conventionally good looking

[Opinion Owner]

they reject the vast majority of guys right off the bat and zero in on the top men they're looking for

homeless men are always lonely but pro-athletes are constantly swarmed by groupies and fangirls

the numbers speak for themselves

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t do anything to put myself out there i mainly keep to myself

[jahaims]

Duh, aesthetics are subjective

[Asker]

I get that but if you have never received any attention before cause she was pretty attractive

[jahaims]

You speak in incomplete thoughts like people can read your mind. Your gibberish isn't coherent.

[Asker]

I’m not sure of another way to word that I never received any attention from females before and she was pretty attractive so the likelihood of her thinking I look good is low