A lot of women say about finding a man "All the good one's are taken". Will you describe what a "good man is please?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Woman who say all the good men are taken are correct. All the good men marry all the good women before age 27.

Anyone who is asking that question, whether male or female, is asking it because they are lamenting the realization they are not one of the good ones.

RetroReviews · Accepted Answer

To me a good man is one who believes in God treats you right , shows you respect, and is faithful to you

osmanthus · Answer

I think what women are going on about is, "All the men who give a damn are married." Or some variation of that—which is the jist of it. What most male players do know is that even feigning giving a damn about the woman will land them sex for a night. It's an old trick and an overused one. I know and they know what we're both there for.

What most men know is that women don't trust nice guys because they are usually players and hence most guys who aren't players act like jerks or are genuinely jerks. It's a self-perpetuated cycle. Men complain about women not liking nice guys and women get played by false nice guys and turned out by the jerks.

Either way, most women gather that a man who genuinely cares about a woman is an uncommon sight and usually is solidified and proved when married. Before that, men sow wild oats with any pussy they find attractive and would let them hit it. Most men know what women consider to be a good man, otherwise they wouldn't be punching the shit out of every other man in existence that had at least one ball sac and a pair of eyes, it's whether the man wants to play the part or not that differentiates him from schlub to hubby. Some men inherently don't bother. Most don't have it in them to care and are onto the next girl.

maddieisfineasf · Answer

yes I can a good man is a man who is faithful loyal and honest and by your side when you need them and not abusive and gives the female flowers or chocolate or something she loves frequently. Helping out around the house when she's pregnant or on shark week or even going through menopause and support her when she needs you and taking care of her while also taking care of yourself and defending her when she is around and even when she is not around and remember to check for signs she is struggling have a good night/day with smiles, Maddie

Finchie40 · Answer

A man that stays loyal and faithful to his wife or girlfriend, that only values her and appreciates her , he is off the market because his heart belongs to her. Sadly a lot of women that have these guys’ don’t treat him the same way in return , and if that’s the case? He might be open to meeting a girl that treats him with love and respect and end his relationship with his wife or girlfriend for this new girl , Happens more than you think , Find yourself a married man that isn’t being treated right by his wife or girlfriend , he will more than likely cherish you instead

bobalife · Answer

It can be hard to get some help on dating here at times because some may hold very negative thinking and projections unfortunately.
I believe a good man is someone who holds onto his integrity, truths, respectful, intentional, has good core values and model it, loyal, and demonstrate good morales with his choices and actions. Of course no one is perfect and we will all make mistakes, but they will also keep themselves accountable and continue with their action to show up.

worldscolide · Answer

The women that complain about not finding good men are the ones that either drove them away, or have their standards set so damn high that all of the good ones are taken.

LazerBean · Answer

A good man is respected, dependable, has strong and conservative values, and makes good choices. People who say stuff like "there are no good men / women left" tend to be losers and not good people themselves.

northerngal · Answer

I do not believe that saying at all. Problem is all the good guys are busy doing stuff like building houses or going to school or helping old ladies across the street. ... not sitting around playing xbox drinking beer or sending dick pics on social media. Lots of good guys out there you just have to be a bit proactive and go find them.

JustSmiley · Answer

To me a "good man " is a man Good to me, for me and people near me, someone who values conversations, understands that their could be weak times, knows that no matter how angry I am, he is all I have so that he doesn't sulk back at me when I am confused, someone a bit possessive yet knows when to control it. Someone how knows that it's not him v/s me but me &him v/s the world. Someone who loves both our families, is my friend, is just there and I feel it's all gonna be okay cuz he is their for me. Someone who's like a comfy home for me to return to when the people near me scare me or I am just tired from the whole work day. Just that one Man is a "great man"

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

A good man is one that is a gentleman, treats his woman right, respect, trusts, stays loyal, faithful, and loves her. He's not a jerk. But the same goes for a woman, she has to love him and do the same for him. If you can't, best to not be in a relationship. You have to give too, not just take. A relationship is like a team, and it only works if you both do your part.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

This will be very dependent on who you ask.

That being said, the largest majority of time I hear similar statements, keep in mind I worked on a nursing unit for 25+ years with predominantly women, is because their list of relationship expectations was so high, neither God or Jesus themselves could ever hope to meet them.

KittyKatLady · Answer

Is an honest person and isn't playing you. I don't think there's an actual issue with not wanting anything serious, as long as you're not a disgusting rat that pretends to do so in order to convince people to hook up with you. This type of nasty behavior I can't stand is a no for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel like any woman who would say this is not a good woman herself. There’s no time limit or age limit to find a man and they’re not all in a relationship, they just have standards that whomever is pushing the narrative of “good guys are taken” doesn’t fit. I don’t hear any quality woman saying that because they know that they’re valuable with or without a man.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

no idea... I don't think any of my exes was a "good man" but they definitely were interesting people, challenging in one way or another :D

Anonymous · Answer

rather than describe a good man, let's describe a bad man he's perfect in every single way but has principles he won't compromise e. g. pro-life

slatyb · Answer

My understanding is that these days that means any functioning adult. That excludes a lot of men.

Booklover_90 · Answer

To me, a good man is:  Intelligent (not in a condescending way)  Kind  Compassionate  Friendly

Surely · Answer

I guess that a “Good Man” is whatever a woman is looking for at the time. Possibly down the road. Not so good!

Juxtapose · Answer

Waits for "ambitious" and dog whistles for "rich" to come up.

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

The guy your best female friend is married too. Woman are evil.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm not taken, yet...

FunkyMonkee · Answer

We say that about women, too.

scott04sa22 · Answer

I'm not worried about finding a woman

DreamLife7 · Answer

You don't know what a good man is?

Asian-male · Answer

Ask those women..

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